So a woman studied this issue for ten years, and she came to the not-so-shocking conclusion that women like strong men.

Here's what she said:

"What Brown also discovered in the course of her research is that, contrary to her early assumptions, men's shame is not primarily inflicted by other men. Instead, it is the women in their lives who tend to be repelled when men show the chinks in their armor."

"Most women pledge allegiance to this idea that women can explore their emotions, break down, fall apart—and it's healthy," Brown said. "But guys are not allowed to fall apart." Ironically, she explained, men are often pressured to open up and talk about their feelings, and they are criticized for being emotionally walled-off; but if they get too real, they are met with revulsion. She recalled the first time she realized that she had been complicit in the shaming: "Holy Shit!" she said. "I am the patriarchy!"

https://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/04/messages-of-shame-are-organized-around-gender/275322/

Now I know for a fact that some men are going to say, "women never bothered me, it was that MALE asshole who tormented and bullied me." Etc.

However, think of it this way: if women sexually selected for intelligent, sensitive men -- men would have crying competitions and hang out at the library, they wouldn't go to the gym or try to earn more money or bully you.

Trying to define "masculinity" without reference to the female makes about as much sense as studying why rams butt heads without reference to the...female ram (I'm now told they're called an ewe. Wow that's a short word).

So females are responsible, at least in part, for "toxic masculinity."

What about toxic femininity?

I think that again, both males and females are responsible. You cant just blame one sex -- that would be retarded/feminst.

When women play damsel in distress, use their children as weapons, gossip, refuse to take responsibility for their actions, blame men etc. men are also responsible for this outrageous behavior. Because men refuse to hold women accountable.

So just as females actually support "toxic masculinity," the same also applies in reverse.