Why do so many people on the red pill want you to settle?

Docbear64 · 2017-05-19T18:18:31+00:00

If you don't know how to flirt with an ugly / mediocre chick you won't have a clue of what the fuck to do when you're flirting with a model .

6's and below are the " training wheels" of sexual strategy .

ppzhao · 2017-05-19T18:03:46+00:00

Because you can go for 5's in addition to going for 9's.

RPAlternate42 · 2017-05-19T21:07:20+00:00

First of all, what you call a "9" is more like a "7" or a "6".

I see all these guys in here saying she's an 8, or a 9. Based on your stories, every college campus is just crawling with 8s and 9s.

It's just not possible. In fact, statistically, the chances of a "9" existing are in the top 0.15%. Statistics say 4s, 5s, and 6s, are all the "normies."

Here's some statistics... for everything.

Your 8's comprise the top 2.35%.

7s comprise the top 13.5%

With 4s, 5s, and 6s, comprising 69% of the entire population.

10's don't exist. They are a standard by which to be measured. A female 10 is a Chad: a measurement device that ceases to exist once you meet it. A 10 or a Chad is a Red Pill Schrodinger device: its is both real and not real until you discover one... then it is always not real.

These numbers are arbitrary. Yes there is a basic ideal standard for beauty that all men seem to recognize, but once you have a population claiming their 3 wife is an 8, or their 4 girlfriend is a 9, you have to examine your own biased opinion.

There is no standardized number system for this shit. Stop trying to live inside a box created by other people. If you want to talk to a girl, talk to her... if you think she is too hot to talk to, talk to less hot girls until you think she isn't much more than all the other girls (she isn't.)

Stop trying to label women to assuage your own self-worth and self-identity. These female number systems are just a small way of living in another's frame.

It's low-level faggotry.,

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jb_trp · 2017-05-19T18:19:34+00:00

Nobody wants you to "settle." People want you to make smart decisions. The idea that you're going to meet a 9 who has a great personality, is kind, good LTR prospect, great in the bedroom, etc. is highly unlikely. Unicorns don't exist.

Don't choose an ugly one. Don't choose a hot one. Choose a good one and make a smart decision if you're getting into an LTR.

Eternasphere · 2017-05-19T20:15:27+00:00

Because if a guy is a shy noob I recommend he would build his confidence talking to level 1 trolls until he gets enough charisma to level up and take on higher level enemies

blackedoutfast · 2017-05-19T19:41:02+00:00

it's actually terrible advice and usually coming from guys with terrible game who can't hold frame well. hot girls aren't really any harder to seduce than ugly ones (assuming you don't start getting nervous and flustered in the presence of a hot girl), and hot girls are generally much more pleasant to be around. 9s are a lot rarer than 6s, but if you cross paths with one definitely go for it.

MattyAnon · 2017-05-20T00:27:53+00:00

"Just lower your standards bro dont go for the 9's go for the 5's"

Because succeeding with 5's can be better than failing with 9's.

Not every guy can lay girls with model looks. You, OP, may have great looks. But if someone else doesn't, it's harder. Some guys need to build confidence and work their way up.

It's not settling, it's a way to make forward progress.

Trooper_1868 · 2017-05-20T06:55:36+00:00

its honestly hard to rate, on a linear scale of 1-10. Why does it matter how you rate someone? Just describe them and we will do the rest.

For example:

Nice ass +5 Bad personality -2 Horrible laugh -1 Cant cook -2

So basically she is a 0? Add in smarts for +3, big tits for +5, BPD -10, insecure -5, hey can she be a -7 somehow? You see where I am going with this? This is just simple shitty math that I am using to emphasize a point.

adanrarian · 2017-05-19T18:35:58+00:00

So many guys on this sub are losers, that is why.

If a guy can barely get laid himself, why would he want you getting 9s? He would prefer you not get laid!

If a guy can only get mail order brides from Thailand, why would he want that Indian guy to get hot blondes he himself could never get?

If a guy cannot make it in life, why would he want others to make it? He would tell them how he was not able to do it and attempt to stop them.

I face the racism on this sub all the time as an Indian guy looking to improve.

Title	Why do so many people on the red pill want you to settle?
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Date	May 19, 2017 5:58 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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