TL;DR: Privately contact the offices of political donors to your state level government. The donor class of men are our key allies. They have the power and the logical self-interest to repeal and replace the state Family Codes.
PART 1: STATE LEVEL GOVERNMENT
The legal base of authority for the Family Courts exists at the state level — not at the city or national level. Our state legislatures are the only ones with the authority to completely re-write the Family Codes. To change the law overwhelming financial pressure must be placed on state level government.
Note to Civics 101 newbies: Your state level legislature is completely separate from your federal level legislature. Both legislatures are bicameral, meaning they have two chambers. The lower chamber is called the House of Representatives. The upper chamber is called the Senate.
The state House of Representatives and state Senate are one level lower than the federal House of Representatives and federal Senate. They are entirely different people. It's the difference between the state Governor and the U.S. President.
The Family Courts derive their legal power specifically from state level laws called the Family Codes. This means the problem is very spread out. And it has lead to the current legal diaspora family men find themselves in today. This nationwide but decentralized legal structure raises the question: Where do we start to apply pressure? The answer is a matter of economics.
Prioritize the states with the largest economies first. California, Texas, New York, and Florida. States with smaller economies will be inclined to follow their lead in a legal domino effect. A prime example of this occurred after Governor Ronald Reagan signed into California law "no-fault divorce" in the early 1970s. No-fault divorce soon went nationwide.
To get started here are wiki links to the state legislatures for the big four states:
CALIFORNIA:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/California_State_Assembly
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/California_State_Senate
TEXAS:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Texas_House_of_Representatives
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Texas_Senate
NEW YORK:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_York_State_Assembly
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_York_State_Senate
FLORIDA:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Florida_House_of_Representatives
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Florida_Senate
If state government politicians stonewall after you call them — they almost certainly will — then onto Part 2: Befriend the donors.
PART 2: BEFRIEND THE DONORS
After contacting your state legislatures they will be on notice. However, the legal inertia will not be there for them to pass legal reform. Expect to reach an intern. The intern will take down your message, but a politician will likely not return your call.
Here's why. Even if your State House of Representatives authors a bill, the danger always exists for any individual legislator that a media pile on will occur. This will be driven by female-centric advertisers and businesses hungry for the female dollar. The media tone would be like any Mike Pence post as written in the TwoXChromosomes subreddit.
As a collective, the donor class can place a financial strangle hold on the legislature, and thus force a change to the state Family Codes regardless of media uproar. They have the power to eliminate the Family Courts profit motive entirely. And it's in their personal best interests to do so.
The Family Courts are at their heart an evil business empire that goes straight for the heart of any man — his family. It makes sense on an economic and moral level to put these evil competitors out of business. The donor class can pressure the legislature to eliminate the current profit-driven model of the Family Courts into a tax subsidized one. The tax subsidized model will discourage the use of the courts in the first place. It's good for every man's wallet.
Right now the political donors are the (unwitting) financial base of power that keep the poorly written Family Codes in place. They are a sleeping giant waiting to be awakened.
Many of the donors are business men, union heads, and political action committees (PACs). All run by men — men who want to protect their children and hard earned wealth from the potential of vindictive ex-wives, psychotic ex-girlfriends, and the profit-driven Family Courts.
The political donor class are our allies regardless of whether they are Democrats or Republicans. So when you reach out do not disrespect them. Even if they tell you to fuck off provide your contact information and stoically move onto the next donor. Leave the door open for them to join us down the line. The goal is to gradually slither our grip around the state legislatures like a boa constrictor. Once tightened the grip won't be loosened, but this process will not happen quickly.
There are simply too many politicians for change to occur overnight. And those politicians are magnified by an even larger pool of donors. I want to emphasize: each and every individual politician has a pool of donors. Our work is definitely cut out for us.
One lawmaker may have only ten donors. Another may have a hundred. The pool of donors is gigantic. There are too many donors to list here, but an effort needs to be made to contact all of them. These men have direct influence over our laws.
Votesmart.org lists the major donors for state level politicians in CA, TX, NY, and FL. Ballotpedia.org and Followthemoney.org are also good sources, but I have found that Votesmart.org tends to provide the information with less clicking around and digging.
Once you have reviewed your state government from Part 1 above, make a list of their individual donors using Votesmart.org. Build a telephone call list complete with street addresses. Find out the top guy at each donor's organization, and give him a call. Avoid dealing with subordinates as much as possible. You want to talk with the top guy. If you get them on the phone, be quick and to the point. Identify yourself. Inform him you are calling since he donated to X state House Member, X state Senator, or X Governor. Explain that Family Law is corrupt and places all men in the state in great financial jeopardy. The Bill of Family Rights aims to fix that. Tell him you need his support to enact such legislation because he holds leverage over the politician.
The largest donors give away millions of dollars, and may not be reachable by phone. In those cases I recommend driving to their office and forcing an impromptu meeting. Expect to be told to fuck off. And again, provide your contact information and leave respectfully.
A list of suggested laws for the Bill of Family Rights is provided below in the comment section.
PART 3: ORGANIZING A "CLOSED DOOR" STRATEGY
I recommend creating a core group of ten to twenty men per each of the major four states. Utilize GeoTRP, the TRP IRC channel, or TRP.RED (if the forums are unlocked) to create a cyber team that is geography based.
To defend against the feminist uproar it's best to avoid the limelight, stay private, and be systematic.
It will be harder to attack us with independent state teams. Couple that with a slow and gradual befriending of the donors to our state House of Representatives, state Senate, and state Governors; and legal reform will become unstoppable. They will go after our jobs with a nasty doxx article. In response, we will slowly tear their asymmetrical feminist laws to shreds.... With a Mike Pence smile on our face.
Make one-on-one phone calls, drive to an office, engage in closed door meetings, talk to guys on manosphere forums, e-mail your buddy or relative who got screwed in the divorce, text message your male friends, quietly inform your work colleague, etc. Keep spreading the word through any private means available. If you want to remain anonymous purchase a burner cell phone, communicate through TOR, and create throwaway accounts.
With time the numbers could grow beyond a core group of twenty men to a thousand plus. Though a thousand men may be overkill as it risks becoming chaotic.
On the other hand, huge numbers will work in our favor to change the laws faster than just twenty men could. That's assuming we keep our state teams organized. A clear chain of command, a hierarchy prioritizing the duties, and clear instruction for each man would be necessary. Guys outside the core group could engage in simple duties like once-a-month phone banking or leaving messages with legislator interns.
As a secondary measure of spreading the word, I suggest reaching out to Matt Drudge, Philip Defranco, Karen Straughan, Dave Rubin, Tim Pool, and Dr. Drew (narrator of Divorce Corp). I am pretty sure they would portray us in a fair light. Just understand that media attention is a low priority for us. The "open door" media path that feminists walk with ease is most often blocked to men.
This is because advertiser supported media outlets are dependent on the female dollar (television, radio, public protests, youtube trending, reddit front page, etc.) And unfortunately MRAs have an awful habit of struggling in vain to obtain mainstream acceptance. They mimic victimhood culture, and they gravitate repeatedly to outlets that marginalize, laugh at, and ignore them.
In contrast, our one-ally-at-a-time "closed door" strategy is not only indifferent to being ignored, it will push through any media uproar.
It is the organizational equivalent of the Youtube honey badger video. The honey badger takes repeated bites to the face from the feminist cobra and keeps on going. It is a method not dependent on good luck, mainstream media approval, or widespread public sympathy. It forces a change to the law by applying increasing leverage to our lawmaker's financial pressure points.
Ultimately, that application of financial pressure will be up to you, the silent reader, to make tangible. This post is nothing more than a rough roadmap for reform. Personally, I don't have as large of a dog in this fight as some of our older readers do. The guy who is not commenting or logged in right now — the one who is buried in draconian child support — has the most incentive. Not me.
If you have the motivation, please speak up in the comment section below. A show of hands will tell other readers the potential strength we have. Based on my experience I typically see ten times the amount of readers than the number of votes. So if I get 200+ votes on my post I can see that there were 20,000+ readers who voted neither way.
This means there is a silent majority. And the potential is huge. Whether that majority has the will to organize will soon be seen.
PART 4: AFTER THE GOAL HAS BEEN ACCOMPLISHED DISPERSE
To avoid the same errors of 1970s 2nd wave feminism — which mutated into 2016 3rd wave feminism and a proto-form of authoritarian communism — any state group that has accomplished the goal of passing a Bill of Family Rights should disperse immediately afterward.
Like Lucius Quinctius Cincinnatus and President George Washington once the objective has been obtained it is time to step down from influence and go back to the farm. That is how we stand as a symbol to future generations of men, to serve the greater good of Western society, and to uphold the principals of civic virtue.
LESSONS LEARNED:
1. Form state teams. Start with the largest economies first: CA, TX, NY, and FL. Review their state legislatures on the wiki pages:
CALIFORNIA:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/California_State_Assembly
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/California_State_Senate
TEXAS:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Texas_House_of_Representatives
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Texas_Senate
NEW YORK:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_York_State_Assembly
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_York_State_Senate
FLORIDA:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Florida_House_of_Representatives
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Florida_Senate
2. Create a list of donors for every state House Representative, state Senator, and state Governor. Votesmart.org, Ballotpedia.org, and Followthemoney.org list their donors.
3. Avoid the limelight and stay private. Network with each other, the state lawmakers, and donors behind closed doors.
4. My recommended changes to the law are provided below in the comments section.
5. Disperse once the Bill of Family Rights is implemented in your state.
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