Tinder girl gets defensive about weight after height question

Mobzor · 2017-03-27T08:02:57+00:00

I wouldn't say she got defensive, took it pretty well actually.

2017-03-27T15:18:54+00:00

She was pretty honest. I don't like that she asked him, but she had a rational reason why and admitted that her weight is a problem for other people. I don't see a reason to post this here.

Valac_ · 2017-03-26T19:47:32+00:00

That's not really a pussy pass.

She's clearly one of those really tall girls who are actually super sensitive about their own height and thus like dating really tall guys to make themselves feel less weird.

Source: My best female friend is 6'5"

kurokabau · 2017-03-29T18:23:44+00:00

She was pretty chill tbh.

Kryten_2X4B_523P · 2017-03-27T05:41:40+00:00

There's something I really respect about a guy who'll give up pussy the make a point.

kurtdiesel · 2017-03-27T23:47:19+00:00

Hey man it is what it is, no need to be insecure about your height.

jol0kia · 2017-03-29T21:53:25+00:00

P.O.F. = Plenty Of Fatties.

2017-03-31T16:31:04+00:00

Actually she's pretty polite about it at the end, admits the guy is also allowed physical standards and she doesn't meet his, says best of luck, doesn't really get defensive or sling insults.

This is actually how people should react on Tinder.

PM_ME_YUR_DICK · 2017-03-26T21:26:26+00:00

I dunno, I think she's 100% on point that the guy's simply trying to shame her for her preferences. The tone reads a lot like the guy got offended by the question and wants to 'one up' her by finding fault with the person before even waiting to see if the height will be a deal closer. It immediately makes one think of a typical sour exchange of, "Oh sorry, that's a bit short for my tastes" and then biting back with, "Yeah well you're too fat for me" to save face, when there's really no need to save face. You simply are your height. Nothing to be done about it.

luciferisgreat · 2017-03-28T17:50:22+00:00

She's a big girl BIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIG

random_tosser · 2017-04-03T01:30:04+00:00

Lol - I know this chick - matched with her maybe a year ago.

Ended up deciding to have a phone call with her, and the first three things she brings up is my career, my salary, and the car that I drive.

I was legit caught off guard, and she kind of made me feel intimidated/judged. And I'm doing ok for myself - Engineer making just under 100k, I drive a Mazda3 that was a gift at graduation, so no car payment.. Anyway quickly told her this wouldn't work out and never spoke to her again. I've never had an experience quite like that one with a first phone call from a rando.

Runnnnnn...run like hell!!

LowRentMegazord · 2017-03-27T05:07:08+00:00

Guy was too defensive too early.

unrequitedfucks · 2017-03-29T19:40:27+00:00

Sorry, I don't think she took the bait.

SolongStarbird · 2017-03-29T23:01:14+00:00

I'm glad she turned out to be civil about it. The only issue us that she assumed he would be superficial and wouldn't like her once she revealed her weight.

2017-04-07T17:42:25+00:00

She kinda went from 20 to 100 but dude brought it down.

She thought he was gonna be a smart alec.

Title	Tinder girl gets defensive about weight after height question
Author	Powermilk
Upvotes	390
Comments	80
Date	March 26, 2017 7:35 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PussyPassDenied
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