How to not be an option to a girl ?

DJVendetta · 2017-06-22T13:23:35+00:00

You shouldn't want to be her priority, she's cheating on her boyfriend already.

dr_warlock · 2017-06-22T13:28:08+00:00

You rub cock on pussy real quick after online encounter and now she's worried? Bullshit. ASD brother.

Throwawaysteve123456 · 2017-06-22T14:04:27+00:00

Had sex without penetration? So... You didn't have sex?

No offense dude, but maybe step 1 is not picking a girl with a bf? Are you trying to LTR this girl, and if so, why? She's already fucking you while in a relationship, she'll do the same for you. You're always just an option for women, hence why she fucked you while in a relationship.

[deleted] · 2017-06-22T15:04:08+00:00

You don't want to be a priority for this girl. What's really happening here is that you're subconsciously putting yourself in competition with her boyfriend. You want her to re-affirm your value and eliminate your insecurity by "choosing" you over this other guy. Don't take that the wrong way, not trying to insult you just speaking from my own experience.

You shouldn't give a fuck whether you're her priority over her bf. You should have other girls going and when this girl wants to hang out maybe you're free maybe you're not. Maybe you're busy fucking some other chick.

Piece of advice though: things never end well with a girl that's willing to cheat on her bf like this girl is. AWALT obviously, but some girls will at least dump a guy before cheating/branch swinging (albeit sometimes like immediately before but hey at least they stepped up and did it rather ham cheating). Plate this girl if you want but stop caring about where you rank in her mind, you don't want anything beyond sex with a girl who embodies AWALT by cheating and setting up her branch swing while she has a bf

WildcardLaw · 2017-06-22T16:12:45+00:00

Be aloof, pay attention to actions not words. If you are good with being a side piece then proceed accordingly.

quicklogaccount · 2017-06-22T17:55:58+00:00

This girl is looking into a swing, you see it, right? And her way to play is as shitty as it gets. I hope you're not considering "waiting".

Do what you're doing. Pull away, add attraction, and cal her back again. Maybe go with the "we're not having sex" thing, say it upfront.

Title	How to not be an option to a girl ?
Author	WildcardLaw
Upvotes	1
Comments	20
Date	June 22, 2017 1:19 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6itfjj/how_to_not_be_an_option_to_a_girl/
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