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Remember guys, women don't marry for love.

hailtotheking999

December 13, 2016
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https://tonic.vice.com/en_us/article/i-got-married-for-health-insurance?utm_source=tonicfbus
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Title Remember guys, women don't marry for love.
Author

hailtotheking999

Upvotes 15
Comments 23
Date December 13, 2016 12:08 AM UTC
(9 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/5i0ale/remember_guys_women_dont_marry_for_love/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/remember-guys-women-dont-marry-for-love.935945
https://theredarchive.com/post/935945
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Comments

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I mean, why would one marry in this day and age anyways. You can date indefinitely with no government breathing down your neck to get married. You can have kids without a ring.

Weddings are just an easy way to blow a few thousand on one day. And not a very fun day at that.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Word of advice: as a man, having a child out of wedlock can present unique challenges. If you do, the very first thing you want to do is establish paternity AND a custody schedule.

In fact, if you plan on having a child out of wedlock, I'd highly recommend seeing a lawyer prior to the child's birth.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I don't plan on having a child out of wedlock.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, you're damned if you do, damned if you don't.

The only winning move is not to play.

[–]DevilishRogue 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You don't get any say if you are a guy. Every time you have sex you are reliant on trusting the woman.

[–]RagerzRangerz 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Two reasons:

Religion

Security. Basically your relationship is written down as a contract. This makes it a lot easier for establishing who keeps what if you break up. Also there's the security or how cheating on your GF is nowhere near as bad as cheating on your wife.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Anyone who marries for love is an idiot, pure and simple.

I wish someone had passed that wisdom along to me when I was approaching adulthood, although fortunately, I managed to learn that lesson BEFORE making that mistake. Still, my life would have been easier had I not had one foot in the water, as it were, chasing the dream.

To further refine it for the younger generation; any man who marries is an idiot.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If you're not marrying for love, why would you marry at all? There's no point.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's a business partnership, and nothing more.

[+][deleted] 9 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

No one, thankfully. However, it doesn't take very long to find stories of women who have used their considerable legal advantage against men in order to attain custody of the children and most of the wealth from the marriage.

It doesn't take much research to understand just how legally disadvantaged married men are compared to their female counterparts. Viewed from a strictly business perspective, no one with any rational facilities would EVER sign that contract. It's only when "love" is used to justify it ( and let's be honest, it's usually lust or, at best, infatuation ) do we think, "Huh, that's not a bad deal!".

Like I said; I wish someone had passed that on to me when I was younger. Had really made me question it sooner. How much time I lost chasing "the dream"...that I didn't really want.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

However, it doesn't take very long to find stories of women who have used their considerable legal advantage against men in order to attain custody of the children and most of the wealth from the marriage.

No one publishes the stories of the tons of women who don't do that. Or who don't get divorced, or a million other things.

So sure there are reasons not to marry. But "news stories" is a terrible reason.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's not that "AWALT" ( all women are like that, which is bullshit in my opinion ), it's that they all have the tools to be like that.

The laws and society are so heavily biased in favor of women that they essentially have a "Get out of Jail for Free" card. Or really, a "get cash and prizes for free" card, when you come right down to it.

[+][deleted] 9 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

By jove, you've solved it!

Good show ol' chap. Good show.

[–]theAnalepticAlzabo 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Because women will not maryy a man who makes less than them.

[–]phforNZ 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Really? Might want to tell my missus that so she can laugh at you.

[–]EricAllonde 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah, this article is perhaps better suited to a MGTOW sub than this one.

[–]ThatNinaGAL 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's not suited to an MGTOW sub, either. It's about a successful marriage between two like-minded people who are raising children together.

[–]thrway_1000 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

http://i.imgur.com/QVbRFcf.jpg

[–]Badgerz92 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My mom married for love. So did my sister. And many of my female friends, and my male friends' wives. You sound like you just have a really unhealthy attitude towards women if you think all of them are heartless gold-diggers. If you don't want to get married that's fine but you don't need to spread misogyny like this

[–]Pugs_of_war 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You can tell the author is lying because she claimed the ACA benefits her.

[–]HANGNAIL_INMY_VAGINA 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They were going up anyway as premiums doubled, well into the thousands per month. Everyone so busy looking at all the illegals getting handouts that they ignored the people paying for it being taxed beyond their ability to pay.

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