The Thing All Women Do That You Don't Know About

NUMBERS2357 · 2016-10-19T07:28:34+00:00

I think many men actually do have experience with de-escalating, minimizing, etc. Maybe the situations men do it in are different, but it's a strategy to avoid being subjected to violence, and men are more likely than women to be the victims of violence.

Lumberingfeather · 2016-10-19T11:19:34+00:00

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franklindeer · 2016-10-19T08:54:57+00:00

This is such nonsense. The idea that it is only women that have to deescalate or calm a situation so as not to be attacked or endangered in some way is just crazy. Men are 75%+ more likely to be the victims of random violence, and generally speaking are the primary victims of most violence. Yet we also have the luxury of never having to adapt to threatening situations? Just fuck right off.

fengpi · 2016-10-19T07:07:16+00:00

Women: strong, fearless, independent, powerful creatures who nonetheless feel the need to hide under their beds, shivering and quaking like easily-damaged wimpy jelly in a curled-up fetal position and terror-pooping in their diapers because any randomly chosen man might be a serial killer who is stalking them RIGHT NOW THIS VERY MINUTE.

manifesto18 · 2016-10-19T12:27:24+00:00

Jesus, that was painful to get through. STFU and quit making yourself out to be a victim lady.

MalusMalorum · 2016-10-19T08:04:59+00:00

I admit, after a while I found it hard to stomach any more of that, but she is aware that men and boys have their own set of things which are uncomfortable? ...and that maybe they do not "get it" because they had to live through it? Quite often, you cannot even minimize pr deescalate, you can just try to hold out and make it through.

She starts going on about being WORRIED about being called something like "bitch", lots of people, and among them many women too, can at best roll their eyes at that, because they already have gone through the whole bring ostracized and bullied.

She is basically like the kids in high school who try to adapt and not get bullied. In other words, she is one of the people who does not have the real problems but just worried she might get them too. What a self centerer egoist.

feedmecarrots · 2016-10-19T10:44:48+00:00

So, she has fed her fear of men to the point of being irrational. This is what feminism taps into and amplifies. It then gets turned to hate. There is nothing men can do to combat it because we are already not doing anything they fear.

Rasalom72 · 2016-10-19T19:29:23+00:00

Seems to me that her point of women and girls being sexualized is kinda missing the point. A woman's sole reason to exist is to create new life... to have children (from an evolutionary point of view)... and how does she do this? By attracting men to have sex with her... it's her fucking reason. And a man's reason to exist is to pass on his genes by having sex with as many women as he can.

This isn't rocket science... it's biology. In our current culture, women have NEVER BEEN SAFER... and yet, they are still driven by fear and irrational "what if" scenarios.

lmicro70 · 2016-10-19T19:36:41+00:00

I couldn't post on the comments section of the article on HP, so here goes:

Aren’t there more important things to worry about? Is this really that big of a deal? Aren’t you being overly sensitive? Are you sure you’re being rational about this?

Arby01 · 2016-10-21T01:09:15+00:00

Strange article. Everyone de-escalates to avoid unpleasantness and consequences. Most guys "de-escalate" to avoid getting fired. Unless you have decided that being fired is better than tolerating whatever is happening. Same thing for violence, of which guys are at higher risk of.

She is imagining that women are the only ones that have to deal with the real world.

Girl-fodder · 2016-10-19T07:08:26+00:00

'But we do it because to not do it could put us in danger or get us fired or labeled a bitch.'

Lol.... If your worried about being labeled as a bitch, you probably act like a bitch.

As for being fired, that would be because u have done something severe enough to be fired.

As for being put in danger from a man, it means you have done something horrific enough to a man to be hurt or even killed by him.

Women don't get fired, killed or labeled a bitch by men unless she deserves it.

Time to move on and ignore female concerns.

Title	The Thing All Women Do That You Don't Know About
Author	ZmajLee
Upvotes	0
Comments	13
Date	October 19, 2016 7:02 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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