Hey guys,

So I'm dealing with a really sub (possible LTR) girl. She started off head over heels for me, but a few months in (after she's allured to "us" being a thing) she's been starting to lead on a beta orbiter we both know.

Now, normally this would not be a problem (last BO self destructed) but I'm wondering what I'm doing wrong here to invoke this behavior. I'm clearly the higher SMV (better looks, body, height and voice) - I think she's trying to dread me.

Don't get me wrong, I've been going on about my alpha ways (still have my social life, making good money, girls always flirt with me even if she's nearby, LIFT, other fun shit cause it's summer) and minding my own business, getting dirty with her as needed, but she's beginning to ramp up this thing with her BO.

Am I supposed to step in tell her to lay off? The only reason I really care is that this BO is beginning to act like a smart-ass and is around her 24/7 making plans to preoccupy her, cockblocking me (not that I see they've made plans and back off like a pussy, but more so go Fuck a plate that is DTF and requires less work). PS: These plans are just her and BO watching movies online over Skype (they don't live remotely nearby one another).

I can really feel her attraction fading, imo cause of the lack of attention I give that BO does. And shit, I'm stumped here. Am I supposed to step in and chase her more (give more attention)? AFAIK this will only dry up the pussy.

And before you say just dread her, I've been doing that. Is this just a case where I can't do anything and my turn has ended?

Maybe I'm overthinking this, but her exchanges with BO have led to her talking a bit more flirtatious and I want to clear this up and either:

  • End things, ghost and move on
  • Clear it up with her, have a talk about it where I hold my frame and set boundaries