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Male author advocates placating women in order to foster a happy marriage.

paperparks

August 8, 2016
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https://www.fatherly.com/fatherly-forum/having-a-child-changed-how-i-approach-conflict-with-my-wife/
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Title Male author advocates placating women in order to foster a happy marriage.
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paperparks

Upvotes 0
Comments 13
Date August 8, 2016 3:09 PM UTC
(9 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/4wqlh3/male_author_advocates_placating_women_in_order_to/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/male-author-advocates-placating-women-in-order-to.944097
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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

..and that, right there, is a partial summary as to why I will never, EVER, marry.

[–]BDMR_lurker 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

TL;DR: happy wife is happy life, become her doormat.

This guy is actually slipping in a backdoor argument as to why men should never marry.

That, or he is just a sad, pathetic imitation of a human being.

[–]SacredWeapon 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"The asymmetry in your arsenal of weapons: she can abuse you and you can't do shit so bend over and take it, bitch."

Updated to be more clear.

[–]Lumberingfeather 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This article confuses me - I thought, to produce children, you needed balls, yet this man obviously doesn't have any...

[+][deleted] 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This article just plays into the beta mentality that women want a "nice guy."

[–]TimeTravel101 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women tend to be very messed up: emotional, low self esteem, arrogant, big ego and dumb (about everything except taking their men to the cleaners). The only way to make it work with them is to be the "bigger man" and put up with shit.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What does a "happy marriage" mean according to this author? One in which there are no disputes? Such a marriage may be "happy", but it is certainly not "healthy." "Yes maming" your wife is a perfect recipe for financial ruin, self-loathing, and eventual divorce.

[–]Saintmyname 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This dude gets it. If you want a happy marriage you have to abandon logic completely.

[–]thrway_1000 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[Archive of Article Here.]

 


Please think of archiving links to sites that are known to have biased and/or negative representations of men, masculinity, and men's rights -- i.e. The Guardian, Slate, The Telegraph, The Independent, Cracked, BuzzFeed, Vox, Vice, Bustle, Medium, Mic, Huffington Post, Salon, Think Progress, Raw Story, and so on. Or to articles and/or sources that may be controversial, which may be altered and/or removed because of our current culture of censorship. https://archive.is/

[–]AlwaysABride -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I hate you

[–]jslnk -3 points-2 points-1 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Lol, it's good advice for any relationship - boss, friends, parents, cops, or wife.

Get over your self-important need to be right all the time and things go a lot smoother.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The most important key to a happy marriage is communication. This author's advise to just "yes, ma'am" your wife in order to make her happy is the complete antithesis of good communication. It is guaranteed to breed resentment in the long run. While i agree this is good advise when dealing with your boss (because, well, they're your boss,) my wife isn't my boss, and i'm not hers.

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