For the men's right movement to be successful, heterosexual men need to establish sexual independence from women by de-stigmatizing both 1. masturbation/fleshlights and 2. male bisexuality.

Some people may argue that this post is sexist or misogynistic, but it isn't. As a gay man, I am just stating some personal observations.

The first one is obvious. If a woman uses a vibrator, she is empowering herself. If a man does the same with a fleshlight, he is a loser. This needs to end. Men need to stop using "virgin" as an insult for other men, and they need to stop shaming men for using fleshlights.

The second one is more controversial. We have to normalize male bisexuality, or even just sexual experimentation between heterosexual men. There is a huge stigma on male bisexuality. Removing this stigma and normalizing male bisexuality would be huge for the men's rights movement. Here, take a look at this page:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com.au/entry/glamour-magazine-sexuality-survey_us_56bcad12e4b0b40245c57d6a?section=australia

Read the comments. There are tons of women saying things about how letting women experiment with each other is totally acceptable, but they would be turned off by a man doing exactly the same thing with another man. This is a blatant double standard that obviously is meant to increase women's sexual market value by making men more dependent on them. This is how women hold so much power in society. They know men have strong sexual needs, and thus women constantly shame heterosexual men for pursuing sexual gratification by any means other than themselves.

Normalizing male bisexuality is without a doubt one of the most important things men can do to further their movement, as it would establish much higher independence from women and a greater sense of camaraderie among men. Women have been doing exactly this for decades, e.g. Katy Perry's "I Kissed A Girl."

I am not saying this because I am some creepy gay guy trying to convince straight guys to hook up with me. I'm already in a long term relationship, and I doubt this will change soon. And I don't like hook ups.

I am saying this because - as a victim of genital mutilation - I am passionately devoted to the men's rights movement. And I am pretty much certain this is the #1 way for the movement to become successful. Start telling people you are bisexual - even if isn't true and you are repulsed by the thought of having any sexual contact with other men. By simply claiming to be bisexual, you are still establishing a sense of independence from women - particularly in the area where they hold the most influence. We need to popularize terms like "Biphobia" or "Biphobic" and hopefully get some liberal guilt out of it. Use Oberyn Martell as a role model to show that male bisexuality is cool.

I promise you, this is the most important thing men can do, as it is exactly what women have been doing for a few decades now to build independence from men and connections among themselves.