can you guys give me some pros and cons?

any specifics i should be aware of if i decide to give it a shot?

any smooth ways to make her accept splitting the bill?

any other advice or sharing of experiences is welcome, i know i ask for a lot but i am simply trying to make up my mind

PS i ve been googling about tinder today doing some research about shoulds and nots and its funny how many articles say its dangerous for women, what the top insults / threats vs women are and how they should instead look for true love elsewhere, poor women