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My wife hugged me to say sorry for beating me up... then knifed me in the back: Inside Britain's first refuge for MALE victims of domestic violence

mankindglobalmedia

April 8, 2016
73 upvotes
/r/MensRights
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1346600/Male-victims-domestic-violence-My-wife-knifed-back.html
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Title My wife hugged me to say sorry for beating me up... then knifed me in the back: Inside Britain's first refuge for MALE victims of domestic violence
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mankindglobalmedia

Upvotes 73
Comments 7
Date April 8, 2016 1:40 AM UTC
(10 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/4duao4/my_wife_hugged_me_to_say_sorry_for_beating_me_up/
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[–]Vandechoz 22 points23 points24 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

But the refuge faced a great deal of opposition when it opened, and still attracts criticism because it doesn’t run police checks on residents to see if they were, actually, the perpetrators of the violence.

really?

even if there is evidence women are becoming more violent, the vast majority of abusers are men.

sigh ...can't just acknowledge men are victims and leave it at that, no...

[–]Deefry 10 points11 points12 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not only have there been numerous stories of dv helplines trying to convince male victims they are the perpetrator, but there are even cases where female batterers looking for help are encouraged to view themselves as the victim.

A.k.a exactly what they say they want to avoid when they refuse to talk to male victims.

[–]AssAssIn46 7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

40% of the victims are men and 60% are women, even taking into account gay relationships on both sides, it's pretty close to 50/50 but no, they have to make it sound like men are more abusing because more women are abused and women are the primary aggressor in 70% of domestic violence cases. Keep in mind that more men are told not to defend themselves against a women whereas women are taught to do this and praised for it and being of the stigma of attacking a woman even in self defence, men just take the abuse. There is also stigma for getting beat up or attacked by a woman and men aren't taken seriously in the justice system.

[–]TrulySillyNewb 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

It's hard not to notice the double standards. Some feminists claim that merely asking questions (such as "where did this happen") about an alleged attack is rape apology and victim blaming, but most of these feminists are quiet when people demand police checks on the men.

Here's what police checks can do. They go to the woman abuser and tell her about her partner's location and the legal charge against her. Then they ask her if she hit her partner, to which she will reply with "no". Sometimes, she'll say "he was the abuser". Then either the man will be sent back to home, where the abuse will get MUCH worse (in many cases it becomes fatal), or, the man goes straight to jail.

There was one woman who stabbed her husband multiple times, all over the body, and she said he "ran into the knife" while threatening her. She didn't have a scratch on her body.

What these 'critics' need to understand: it's not because we want to make a system that can be abused. It's because the government, law, and police and biased against men in cases of domestic violence, and we need to shield men from the a system that is hell-bend on destroying them.

If a man files charges, then yes, we should check the facts just like any case. But we need to understand that police checks on domestic violence residents do not always bring justice. And this is something we should work on improving.

[–]AssAssIn46 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Even the comments there with personal stories are just sad. Too bad men only have 0.8% of the number of shelters women have in England and Wales.

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[–]MRA-automatron-2kb 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow... I hope you are doing better now.

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