The sad reality of today's male-female dynamic. I have women I love in my life and I wish things were different. It's sad people have to think twice before helping others.

mjsansai · 2015-09-09T04:41:08+00:00

You are right, I don't help any women unless she is an intimate or a friend (which I have one). Men of my generation grew up in the 50's where taught politness and social graces in grammar school by the brothers and nuns of my catholic school. Women gave men and boys respect for those roles of protector of women and the down trodden. Today you can only get yourself in trouble by helping a women or a child that is not an intimate of yours. All men will come to realize that helping and protecting women only brings arrest or humiliation from the woman or the crowd. No respect, no help.

iainmf · 2015-09-09T04:37:44+00:00

I recall a story of a young girl drowning after getting lost and falling in a river. A workman in a white van had seen the girl and didn't help because he was afraid of looking like a pedophile by giving her a ride home in his van.

In other words, this demonisation of men is getting people killed.

Zombiecidialfreak · 2015-09-09T09:20:14+00:00

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wanderer779 · 2015-09-09T13:48:40+00:00

My chivalry died out a while back. It wasn't really because I was afraid of being accused of something. I just got tired of all the bullshit women are constantly spewing and decided to let them fend for themselves.

A few months ago I went to the pharmacy and on the way in I saw a woman whose car wouldn't start. About 20 minutes later I was leaving and she was still trying to crank the engine like a dumbass. I thought for a minute about helping, but then two things came to my mind. One, women throw a fit any time you suggest they help you in any way that might fall under a stereotypical gender role. Two, no matter what I do, as a man I am labeled the asshole. So I figured why not just actually be an asshole and let the crime fit the punishment, and got in my car and left.

rottingchrist · 2015-09-09T05:50:26+00:00

Reap what you sow.

TheRavenousRabbit · 2015-09-09T11:02:07+00:00

I refused to help a female relative move her 100 pound make up table down 3 stairs because I had 8 hour work day. (I work at a warehouse.)

She removed me from Facebook and shouted at me through the phone, calling me lazy.

It's funny seeing how "strong and independent" women still need men to fulfill their gender roles for them to just move to a new apartment.

mikesteane · 2015-09-09T06:21:47+00:00

Who will help them in female only carriages?

Lobstermansunion · 2015-09-09T15:24:26+00:00

This issue came up as a topic of conversation among my circle of friends a while ago. I very kindly made logical arguments and the women in the group literally said that men should risk going to jail in order to protect women. The white knights in the group didn't go that far, they just rejected the idea that anything could ever go wrong by trying to save a woman.

Wargame4life · 2015-09-09T11:28:55+00:00

I remember a case of a lone girl who was walking lost on her own on some housing estate and three different lone males at some point saw her but didn't intervene from fear of being assumed as a paedophile, she ended up drowning in someones pond.

society pays with its children blood when you accept standard demonising 50% of the population based on hysteria.

i dont blame those guys one bit, i blame instead the hysterical cunts who think basesless hysterical accustions are "victimless" and "better to be safe than sorry" is fine provided they dont feel any impact.

the same is true of people who claim "victim" under domestic violence/rape when its bogus, they are using genuine cases and genuine victims as a tool and shield, at cost to true victims and cases.

At the end of the day it will ultimately be you who will lose out and suffer from all of this, because men are notorious at being prosperous doing "their own thing" but women have all demanded and insisted on support and help in some form, once you start messing with the support network through hysterical victim pandering you end up without it.

Lobstermansunion · 2015-09-09T15:21:39+00:00

The most I will ever do for a woman in danger not personally known to me is call 911.

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