What do you consider a reasonable partner count for an LTR?

Quantum_Jiraiya · 2018-05-16T10:12:10+00:00

Depends on a lot of factors How old is she? How old are you? Are you considering marriage and kids? etc

Your n count definition by including all sexual acts is probably gonna increase n count by a factor of 2 to 10 depending on the person.

In today’s age, there are a few kinds of women with single digit n counts by their mid twenties.

Women who are grotesquely unnattractive and/or morbidly obese and/or have some serious disfigurement.
Women who have serious anxiety problems and/or crippling shyness.
Women who are religious zealots.
Women who have only been in one or two relationships which lasted years.

An 18 year old with an n count (classical penetration definition) of 7 is probably on the high side if not red flag side.

A 20-22 year old with n count of 7 is generally on the high side. For an HB5+, which you are probably considering for an LTR, it might be average.

A 23-27 year old with an n count of 7 is probably what you might think would be a “good” girl. So many factors go into n count like how I mentioned above, but it is about a maximum of one new guy a year since becoming sexually active.

[deleted] · 2018-05-16T11:46:46+00:00

You should not ask a women her n count as she will LIE to you about it. The only time a women will answer the question truthfully is when that women is married.

360_no_scope_upvote · 2018-05-16T13:25:00+00:00

A woman will never tell you her true N-count. You look like a nosy insecure bitch.

Bruchibre · 2018-05-16T14:38:35+00:00

Something around 10. I'd be more concerned about general sluttiness: how many ONS, if 3somes, simultaneous FWB, etc.

I'm 35yo and my n-count is 30.

zuhbooze · 2018-05-16T06:11:40+00:00

You ask the women your sleeping with how many partners they've had? Bold move, Cotton.

TRP puts too much thought and value on a females count. It doesn't matter, AWALT. And 7? Including foreplay? You must be in highschool.

AWorseManThanYou · 2018-05-16T14:38:30+00:00

For me, hard 7 including me. Any penis contact counts. It’s a hard 4 including me for any penetration. However this is for women 27+. Younger and I expect less.

DiscordantMonk · 2018-05-16T16:19:09+00:00

I expect any woman I ltr to have a libido as voracious as mine. Ncount really doesn't matter to me. Just because she's a virgin or has a low n-count doesn't mean that awalt doesn't apply. Just be the best fuck they've ever had

AllgBeamtenrecht · 2018-05-16T06:31:59+00:00

age divided by two is okay i think

Title	What do you consider a reasonable partner count for an LTR?
Author	mothairmout
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Date	May 16, 2018 5:56 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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