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5 Ways To Raise Your Kid Gender Neutral: "Don’t buy them blue or pink.", "Read them stories. But think, first.", "Put them into Co-Ed schools.", "Let the boys cry."

Musgabeen

August 8, 2015
11 upvotes
/r/MensRights
https://web.archive.org/web/20150808092739/http://www.youthkiawaaz.com/2015/08/how-to-raise-gender-neutral-kids/
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Title 5 Ways To Raise Your Kid Gender Neutral: "Don’t buy them blue or pink.", "Read them stories. But think, first.", "Put them into Co-Ed schools.", "Let the boys cry."
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Musgabeen

Upvotes 11
Comments 15
Date August 8, 2015 9:45 AM UTC
(10 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/3g8a91/5_ways_to_raise_your_kid_gender_neutral_dont_buy/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/5-ways-to-raise-your-kid-gender-neutral-dont-buy.973735
https://theredarchive.com/post/973735
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Comments

[–]WaitingToBeBanned 8 points9 points10 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What a load of shit.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep, + i love that username

[–]James32015 8 points9 points10 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It's not that boys aren't allowed to cry it's that no one gives a shit. When a woman/girl cries its a big fucking deal to people

[–]DillipFayKick 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd wager boy babies are allowed to cry much longer than girl babies. Forming at an early age, the idea that you're on your own bud.

[–]Musgabeen[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Let the boys cry" also can be interpreted as a call for a tougher treatment for boys, to counterbalance "male privilege".

[–]the_leander 12 points13 points14 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

And watch as the other children in the playground, who were brought up with a firm sense of their gender identity rip them to shreds.

[–]Numericaly7 10 points11 points12 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"How to engender a lack of confidence and social anxiety early on in a child's development."

[–]azazelcrowley 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is why it's crucial not to just leave them floating around in a neutral sense, but to instil in them an active identity of doing what the fuck they wanna do regardless of societies expectations. Not just "Not instilling gender roles" but instilling an active personality that'll tell people to fuck off with their preconceptions. People respect sureity and confidence. If your kid can look someone in the eye about them liking pink and ask what the fuck are you gonna do about it, that'll help matters compared to suddenly being exposed to traditionalism and buckling under the pressure.

[–]AntonySinz 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is a load of shit. Let's beat boys down and make them unsure of themselves and masculinity. At the same time lets tell the girls they can do and be whatever they want. Girls should be proud of your femininity and boys should be ashamed of their masculinity.

[–]xynomaster 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a load of shit. Let's beat boys down and make them unsure of themselves and masculinity.

Can you point out exactly where in this article they are "beating down boys"?

They're saying everyone can be anything, not only girls. If you'll notice in addition to telling girls they can be heroes, engineers, etc, they also advocate telling boys they can be nurturing, they can cry, etc, things that they were traditionally prohibited from doing.

So it's more about opening all different options to everyone.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Gender is not a social construct.

[–]azazelcrowley 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd just tell them about gender and how they're allowed to do what the fuck they wanna do in terms of it and when other people whine about gender roles, tell them to shove it. Repeat the lesson on occasion til it sinks in.

Maybe covertly arrange for them to meet a few gender-bent role models like male nurses and female soldiers to balance out the other role models they'll meet.

But as for buying blue and pink? Fuck it guys, just buy green. It's simpler.

[–]qwerty7190 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Would it be alright to treat my daughter the same and I our son?

[–]xynomaster 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I like this article, I don't know why everyone is so up in arms about it.

It says nothing bad about boys. It's simply talking about eliminating gender roles and making things better for everyone. I would think things like "let boys cry" are great for men's rights.

[–]SupremeAuthority 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't have kids.

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