I been doing this for a while and I see a pattern forming. I will literally meet girls. Tell them the deal. Don’t want a relationship. Strictly fun. You don’t want to date me anyway. I’ll break your heart. You in? Cool. You out? Also cool

So most them are in. Things going great. Then they start to form feelings pretty fucking fast. Now I’d call myself a pretty high quality guy. I literally spent my whole life before red pill making myself attractive to women. And game. And since discovering RP my priorities have changed but the attraction has also grown. But overall I’d say I’m quite the experience and this id say is what gets me laid a lot and keeps them plates for a loooong time but also causes this.

They start to pull comfort test. Ask what we are. I remind them. They are hesitant to continue. I say okay. They come back. You know the deal.

Then this will happen. They say “idk why guys like you always show up in my life”. “Why am I always number two. Never number one” “how can you just not care so easy” this and that. Pity. Idk I don’t want to listen to it. After this I usually cut the chord because some underlying issue must be going on.

Then they hate me for me. Even though I laid out the rules they agreed to play. Now they hate me. So I will not talk to them for sometime and they will either reconnect or I want to fuck again I will swindle my way in again. They say how they really liked me and this and that and either fuck. Or not.

But regardless I understand this is probably common but is there a way to prevent it. I’ve also been with chicks who are cool as fuck. We fuck. They like me but know what it is. And will joke about how many girls I get and this and that. I haven’t found the code to keep civil with women I fucked but I’m wondering if there is one.

I know most of you will say. They’re plates who cares what they feel you’re not responsible. And I know but I reach to leave people better than I left them off. And also participate in sex without it having to be a drama fest. I don’t like leaving a bad taste in their mouth or fucking them up even worst than they are.

Any knowledge on this?