I was at the gym yesterday and a couple of women were looking at me (definitely boosted my self esteem) the single ones glanced for a bit then went back to their workouts but the ones in LTRs were making heavy eye contact with me while their boyfriends were right there.

For example, I was in the sauna and this lady around 35 kept staring at me with full on bedroom eyes and I at her while her boyfriend/husband was sitting right next to her. I would look away after awhile but when my gaze shifted back to her there she was giving me those eyes again. I felt super turned on but guilty after empathizing with the guy she was with and thinking how I’d feel if it were me.

Was she trying to get me beat up or something, or is that just the kind of fun couples have without feeling the guilt of cheating. Same thing happens when I’m hanging out with a girl, way more girls check me out.