am I wrong or having an attractive son is better than a daughter

Diligent_Divide_4978 · 2023-09-02T21:35:34+00:00

I would be a terrible father either way. Permanent damage has already been done to my psyche.

My kids would grow up realitypilled and socially-ostracized from having a 5’7, autistic, and Asian clock nerd for a dad. On top of that, my nihilism, depression, and disdain for normie culture would likely rub off on them.

I cannot in good conscience pass my nihilism and depressive nature down to yet another generation that will likely have it much harder than me in almost all areas of life anyway.

Valuable-Marzipan761 · 2023-09-02T20:50:06+00:00

Better in what way? I don't think either is easier.

lostatlifecoach · 2023-09-02T21:27:03+00:00

Trust me bro's. It is infuriating raising a son. You will see every virtue you have mirrored in them. You will also see every flaw you have amplified. Knowing if he would listen to you his life would be better and watching him make the same mistakes anyway is horrible.

My kids off to a better start than in am. Already broken a school track record I set. GPA is slightly higher than mine was. Still though.

You have to let them make there own mistakes. At some point you've taught your lessons and given your advice. You just have to sit in the bleachers and watch. Win or lose.

I think with a daughter I wouldn't be as concerned that she is better than I was. There is no objective measure. Then again if my son is better than me it proves the I was a better father than my father. I hope that old man is still alive when my son is a success so I can rub it in his face.

FairyMachine · 2023-09-03T00:08:11+00:00

Nope.

Boys aren't less emotional or "easier to raise" than girls. Usually parents who say this, it's because they neglect their sons.

They don't teach their sons how to process emotions like anger, it's just "boys being boys" and they grow up neglected with no clue how to deal with their feelings.

cullinging · 2023-09-02T21:00:36+00:00

Most men want men.. Most women want women

Nothing to be ashamed of in my opinion. And I would agree men are easier to raise, but maybe that is just because we are men ourselves and know that role?

Petrosmine · 2023-09-03T12:52:01+00:00

having an attractive son you wont have to worry about shit like him dressing like a slut or being one, but in the other hand having any kind of daughter assures your genes will pass on while you have to deal with alot of bullshit

Title	am I wrong or having an attractive son is better than a daughter
Author	Chemical_Major_1403
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Date	September 2, 2023 8:44 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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