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Crushes and Rejections

September 4, 2022

I understand women have it hard when they reject guys since men can harass them or use violence on them. This is a valid experience women go through unfortunately.

But I also noticed that women hate it when guys develop crushes on them. I am not talking about aromatics but this sense that they hate the actual crushes that guys develop on them. I think the reason being is either that they think guys are manipulating them or they are scared of ruining their friendship. Notice the words "I think" I am using here. I can get where they are coming from but I think these thoughts are incorrect.

This makes me believe that the solution women want is for guys to supress their feelings or for guys to not express their feelings. Again this is just my folk theory I am not claiming that this is the absolute truth.

But I think we can come up with better solutions to this dilemma. For one we need better men who can handle rejection appropriately. Before the red pillers come at me I think women should stop assuming all guys that develop crushes are manipulative. I understand guys who end friendships with you and that sucks but I think it's because they cannot handle uncomfortable emotions and I think they should handle these emotions and remain friends. At the same time women should take the chance and date their friends if they want to. Not saying women should give everyone a chance just that they should go after someone they have feelings for. If they break up so what they handle these uncomfortable emotions and awkwardness. Life is full of awkwardness and uncomfortable feelings but we need to navigate through them instead of avoiding them. These are just my thoughts and ideas, I am not claiming I hold the absolute truth so please don't get the wrong idea here

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Title Crushes and Rejections
Author riverden
Upvotes 0
Comments 5
Date September 4, 2022 4:46 AM UTC (4 months ago)
Subreddit /r/AllPillDebate
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[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

Are you talking about the friend zone?

Women put men in the friend zone when they want attention but not sex from the man. The attention feels good, but he isn’t sparking her interest.

The aim of these guys is to fuck. Let’s be clear. But in the face of friendzoning they attempt half-assed romantic crap that comes across as a crush.

When the guy starts simping like this, women do not like it. Why? Because it’s not the kind of attention they want from that guy.

There is no “solution”. From the guy’s perspective the best advice is simple.

Shoot your shot. If you miss, walk away and treat the girl as dead to you. You aren’t going to fuck her and you are faaaaar better off focusing elsewhere.

This means not being her “friend”. At all.

Whatever you do, Do. Not. Simp.

[–]riverden[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

I am going to be honest I grew up under a rock or inside a bubble so I do not really understand the friendzone that occurs in the real world I only have my experiences. From my knowledge a women rejects a friend or acquaintances on the basis of friendship or in fear of ruining their already established platonic relationship. These to reasons to me is shallow and not really deep. This is my main frustration with mainstream culture is that it's shall and unmotivated to ask deep and philosophical questions about relationships and to change things fundementally about the dating culture. I hope I clarified my position

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

That’s blue pill thinking. It is extremely rare for a man to genuinely want a platonic friendship with a woman.

[–]riverden[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Depends on the women like I think men can be good friends with a lesbian

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Only if the man is gay. Or the woman is desperately unattractive.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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