girls who don't fall under mainstream

_Duriel_1000_ · 2022-09-08T23:18:51+00:00

tf are mainstream girls?

Glad-Discount-4761 · 2022-09-09T01:44:06+00:00

If you want to Girl like this,just go to east asia.

Hodgekin · 2022-09-08T16:28:31+00:00

My wife of 4 years came from southeast asia. I brought her back to the west to live with me. Her upbringing was more traditional. Most people got married out of highschool and had kids. Though western ideologies are starting to creep into the culture.

I didn't date her. Went straight to engagement then marriage. She's hard working. I taught her a lot about self responsibility and about how to live life. She's smart. We're both clean and tidy people, so our personality compliments each other well. I picked her mostly for her personality trait, but she's not bad looking. I would rate her a 6/10.

She's taken on the role of a traditional house wife. We have a 2 yearold and a newborn.

I'm pleased with the arrangement. We've been married for 4 years, and we can talk for hours on end, without any of that awkward silence. We have a 9 year gap where I'm older. It goes to show that if you know enough about life, you don't need to know about silly things like pop-culture and tv-shows to keep a conversation going. I sometimes have 2+ hour conversation with my supplier/customers after work. We can just keep talking and talking without knowing anything about the other person culture or history.

This is all possible because I spent a good 5+ years understanding human nature and learning how to maintain a healthy relationship. It's an on going process of learning.

My advice to people who wish to have a meaningful relationship, is to set up a strong foundation of honesty and trust. Be honest with yourself about the things you can and can't tolerate. Don't lie to yourself, thinking you can tolerate something small, but after 5 years, you snap. Set those boundaries correctly and make it a negotiation. A relationship isn't about having fun for 1 week or 1 year. It's about living together for 50+ years without having thoughts about strangling the other person half to death because they left the toilet seat up for 50 years.

A relationship is like having two incomplete people, full of flaws and imperfections, come together, and making a whole person. Don't expect your partner to be perfect. Don't expect yourself to be perfect. Know where the faults are and attend to them.

Lastly, have a ambitious goal in life that the two of you can strive towards. And make it clear. My goal in life is to have a big and loving family, where all my kids will be fully independent and functional adults. And the true test of love would be me letting my kids go and have their own adventure in life, but they will come back home and visit me in my old age because I managed to be a good enough father.

I sympathize with people in the west. I understand why people have such trouble building relationships. It all starts with the family. It starts with people not taking accountability. It starts with the lies that put men and women against each other. It's no easy task for people to forgive themselves and to live a good life. We live wretched lives and it's so much easier to shake our fist at God and hold him accountable for our failings, but that doesn't solve anything. It may feel justifiable to do so but you can't justify continuing to live a miserable life to your future self. You owe your future self the best possible life. So you pursue that because you know your future self with thank you for the sacrifices you've made to get there.

Sorry for the long winded comment, I know this wasn't what you asked for but I felt it was necessary to say.

LiterallyAFknTroll · 2022-09-08T22:49:18+00:00

My gf is from china she spends 24/7 with me and we almost never fight. I treat her better than I’d ever treat an American girl simply because she doesn’t just expect me to do it whilst having a bad attitude. (Like a liberal feminist) She appreciates it. That keeps me going and keeps me in love with her.

Shes pretty anti socialism because she thinks china is horrible so she thinks libfems are spoiled and brainwashed

mcove97 · 2022-09-09T14:59:01+00:00

Well, the guys who dated me probably have lol.

I actually grew up under a rock lol in a Lutheran Evangelical home out in the bumfuck middle of nowhere in the countryside. I was socially awkward in my younger years due to living a rather sheltered life, but grew out of it, developed my own spiritual beliefs, my own philosophy, my own fashion and hair style and my own childfree lifestyle. I also consider myself egalitarian and not a feminist. I definitely wouldn't say I'm a mainstream woman. I may have green and blue and pink hair but I'm definitely not your stereotypical or even mainstream feminist.

When I have asked guys what they like about me, they've told me they like me cause I'm interesting, a lot of fun and very enganging and funny. Guys met me on the internet cause that's where I talk when I'm bored. I also connect a lot more with dudes from other countries, because well they have funky weird ass beliefs like I do.

islandmiler · 2022-09-10T08:04:53+00:00

Daily reminder https://rareddit.com/r/Braincels/comments/8zebgo/im_not_like_the_other_girls_teehee/

Title	girls who don't fall under mainstream
Author	riverden
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Comments	9
Date	September 8, 2022 2:23 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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