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CMVroseonyxa/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:59 PM
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CMVroseonyxa/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:16 PM
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Question For Womenroseonyxa/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:52 PM
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Question For Womenroseonyxa/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:21 PM
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Question For Womenroseonyxa/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:00 PM
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Free For All Discussionroseonyxa/r/AllPillDebate03/11/22 10:21 PM
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Redpill Discussionroseonyxa/r/AllPillDebate06/10/22 10:35 PM
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Question For Womenroseonyxa/r/AllPillDebate03/11/22 01:08 PM
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Question For Womenroseonyxa/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 05:43 AM
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Question For Womenroseonyxa/r/AllPillDebate06/10/22 06:05 AM
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Question For Menroseonyxa/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 03:21 AM
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Free For All Discussionroseonyxa/r/AllPillDebate13/09/22 03:18 PM
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Discussionroseonyxa/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:49 PM
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Question For Womenroseonyxa/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:01 PM
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Question For Womenroseonyxa/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:48 PM
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You are mocking me right saying how I sunk and clearly inferior to you biker sir. You are dehumanizing me and you are lying about me. You only know my reddit account not who I am outside of this subreddit. You people should have just left me alone. I wasted so much of my time talking to you people. Oh you are going to say but it's your fault. Bitch I have fucking OCD why don't you take the time and get educated
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:57 PM
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You didn't just disagree but you mocked me man. You said stuff in condescending manner like is this your plow to gather up moral crusader. Bro people blow up during disagreement that's just life man this is a heated topic you cannot just expect a calm debate, I can still be polite and heated when debating this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:44 PM
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So you care more about mocking a person with OCD than trying to understand where they are coming from from? You are just dehumanizing people with mental illness at this point trying to pwn us
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:35 PM
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Wow nice post bro I understand why you got triggered from my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:26 PM
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Bro I am not talking about this subreddit Jesus you love strawmaning. I am talking about my past conversations on discord. Yeah people ignoring what you said and saying something else is shutting down. My god you liberals are so annoying with your word play god damn it. You have to use words exactly and literally dur. Come on we have the right to speak out our opinions and criticize the feedback we receive. What are just supposed to blindly accept the feedback we get? I am critiquing their own o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:50 PM
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That's what assholes like you say to dheild yourself from any critisms. I am done talking to you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:05 PM
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Shut up I don't expect to change the world through reddit but I will irl. So yeah shut up. You people have always mocked people like me you are no different than the bullies I had as a kid. You hate mentally ill folks suffering from OCD. You just dehumanize us and say get therapy as insult. Well fuck you and people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:55 PM
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Shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:50 PM
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Spoken like a true pessemestic bug. You defeatist scums will not drag us to your hell as I said before. We can defeat the feminist and you Individualist worms. Those with strong imagination have power to do things beyond what you cowards can dream of wait you guys are incapable of dreaming. Authors JR Tolkien created influencial novels that spans internationally. Of course he didn't do it alone he worked publishing team. You fulls underestimated the power of the collective. You have no idea what…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:42 PM
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Go back to kissing your masters asshole mate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:18 PM
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Preach sister, no one is entitled to loyalty it must be earned
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:08 PM

You don't deserve what you got then, people who want relationships should only get relationships not people like you who mindlessly follow the crowd. You only did it because it's just an expectation you don't really love your husband. I apologize I am just in a vile and hateful mood today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:56 PM
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I don't want to participate in hook up culture, not really it's more so to piss you off actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:31 PM
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I am not sure if you are aware of this but some people have OCD and Autism in which we cannot stop thinking about something even if we want to. You neurotypicals will never understand us
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:50 PM
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No I am not, I don't desire to hook up at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:19 PM
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I actually agree with you op humans have evolved to be social animals it's like people saying chewing is hard, which is silly we evolved to chew. Social behavior in primates is old not sure how old but pretty old I believe. Relationships are only hard today because of our current economic system and the culture that defends it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:19 PM
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Sex is definitely a political act even you feminist propose it as one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:08 PM
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This is actually well put here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:05 PM
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Oh gotcha thank you for clarifying that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:58 AM
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Lmao, I love the story where one broke into a bakery and ate some baked goods lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:17 AM
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I interpreted you saying garden variety porn as you mocking me. I apologize I can misinterpret people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:16 AM
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I imagine they'd be annoying aren't like dumpster divers?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:43 AM
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They don't sound scary to me honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:40 AM
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What are goannas? I am not scared of spiders mostly flying insects like wasps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:24 AM
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I am more scared about appearances than actually threat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:23 AM
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Snakes I am ok with but bugs I am not ok with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:30 AM
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Romance elements is still romance in my opinion. Cyberpunk is good I definitely recommend it but personally people hyped it up too much. It's still a good anime
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:54 AM
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I cannot think of a popular media but I can think of some anime like relife, science fell in love so I try to prove it, cyberpunk edge runners, howl's moving castle, and rascal doesn't dream of bunny senpai
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:18 AM
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That's not the kind of men I am talking about you just strawmaning me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:02 AM
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Are you mocking me?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:37 PM
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Wait really? Most men in my friend group don't and didn't sleep around. Granted we are all nerds and what not. But I think you can find men like us one day I believe in you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:18 PM
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You are a living example of a true redditor aren't you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:12 PM
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Social welfare system, have grandparents and other relatives co parent, decrease working hours etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:07 PM
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Yeah no one is a mind reader, not everyone has successfully jobs, or Einstein level intelligence with leanardo decaprio face, but men can still learn to be better people and better lovers. Again I am talking about the things I have mentioned above. If romance novels could depicts these traits realistically that would work. I never said men had to copy exactly like those novels
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:06 PM
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I am sorry men doing house chores, showing empathy, and performing wanted romantic gestures is imaginary
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:52 PM
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Maybe society can make it easier to raise kids so men would want to have kids earlier. I honestly want them earlier so I can be apart of their life longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:26 PM
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Men should be more like those imaginary men honestly. Works of fiction can teach you good morals. If men read romance novels I think they would be better individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:18 PM
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If men were better people would we see women choosing single parenthood less?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:16 PM
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How come they don't want a man helping them raise their kids? No judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:50 PM
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You also noticed the trend of asocial behaviors in humans. Yeah prosocial humans should win because humans by design are not able to survive a solitary lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:51 PM
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I also think promiscuous people are likely to do this as well
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:47 PM
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Yeah it does amaze me how people who can't live without indoor plumbing, temperature control, electricity and their dumb ass phones idolize tribal societies that live half naked in the wilderness. It really does amaze how these people will romanticize tribal societies like as if they are some utopia. while women are free of stigma from promiscuity and are allowed to cloud paternity certainty, their bodies are also considered communal properties. They also neglect to mention these women are still…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:16 PM
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People don't really think about this, they only think about immediate consequences of actions
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:07 PM
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Yes I am paranoid I embrace my paranoia because it's who I am. Paranoid people should not be ashamed of their paranoia. I came to this conclusion because people like you destroyed my coping mechanism. I used to daydream of a better world to cope with harsh times but know I cannot do that because you people enforced your pessemestic beliefs onto me. Plus I am addicted to anger so I pick fights to help feel angry. I am perpetually numb and anger is the easiest next to anxiety emotion to feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:57 PM
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I guess the world needs men more like you then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:35 PM
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That's good for you man I don't judge people for hooking up but I don't care about others who do. I cannot stop other people from judging and it's not really affecting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:24 PM
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That's because you want to enforce hook up culture onto people and prevent young people from falling in love. I know people like you hate the idea of young people falling in love and wanting serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:21 PM
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If marriages are so bad then why marry, why not just give up and force your pesemismistic views onto other people. Obviously you people don't think humans can become better. Isn't this what misanthropist want?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:10 PM
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I don't think promiscuity is a predictor for infidelity rather it's a predictor for a partner wanting to open up their relationship. I cannot find the article that mentions this but it does say people who had a casual sex past tend to open up their monogamous relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:58 PM
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Bro you sound like you are white knighting and these kind of posts come off as virtual signaling. I am not saying all men who support feminism is a white knight just to be clear. Some men just don't want to marry a women who engaged in casual sex because it goes against our values. I believe sex only belongs in romance and I want to be with a women who values that. It becomes a problem when hook up culture pressures women and men to sacrifice their values to fit in. The women here would argue it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:53 PM
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That's not true I know couple of women with little to no experience and they know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:16 PM
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Don't get married then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:15 PM
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It's not always about cheating my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:11 PM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:11 PM
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I am exactly like this, I believe sex only belongs in romantic relationships and I just want a women who values this too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:09 PM
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What if men become better people?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:40 AM
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Why do women hate the concept of raising a baby biological father so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:28 AM
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I think women have stronger desire by nature to cheat, I think they may hate the idea of having a biological father around so they want to get impregnated by someone else besides their husband or boyfriend. I learned this from reading woman magazines articles and articles about hunter and gather societies. Also some feminist articles I read are wierd about cheating they don't support cheating but they seem to be whistle blowing. They said shit like I should not be judged or shamed or loose frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:00 AM
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So do you think by nature women hate having biological father around?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:50 AM
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Well yeah, it’s obviously expensive and there are better uses for money, but it’s not different from a relationship from a monetary aspect. Taking a woman out for a date, buying her gifts, planning a trip, etc. all take money. Yeah but the girl you are dating with is in a genuine relationship with you I’m just pointing it out because if someone’s only reason for not wanting an escort is because of exploitation or trafficking, there are ways to ensure you aren’t contributing to that. I don't thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:34 PM
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Eh I don't want to waste money on sex I read use that money to buy books or video games
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:19 PM
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I am never going to use a sex worker, so I don't know why you are telling me this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:38 PM
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Society A: mother and biological father live together and raise their children Society B: men and women live seperately and only meet to have sex and then they both seperate and mother raises her child alone. Which society would you want to live in you only get two choices here and don't cop out by saying as long as they have freedom of choice I don't care about the results
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:43 PM
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Stop weasiling and tell me what kind of society you want ideally it doesn't have to be realistic but just tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:11 PM
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I am a man, this fake women was developed from reading bunch of articles and interacting with women online. These articles were women magazines and stuff on tribal societies. These articles mention how biological father hood is not present in some tribes, how love is not meant to last, and how some girls get pregnant from casual sex and is ok with raising the baby by themselves. This makes me believe that this is the true nature of humanity and that the only reason men and women are together is …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:31 PM
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So you don't want biological father's involved in parenting or being in relationship with mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:21 PM
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So are you ok with abolishing the concept of biological fatherhood
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:57 PM
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So you want to abolish biological fatherhood as a concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:55 PM
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She lives far away from, we drifted apart, and I am pretty sure she isn't attracted to me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:05 PM
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Is it easiest without the biological father around
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:01 PM
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So does that mean humans are going to end up like elephants where the absence of the biological father is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:06 PM
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Yeah this definitely makes sense, it's just no one wants to reduce the number of divorce or single parenthood. It's almost as if these people feed off this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:07 AM
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How is this neurotic, it's definitely a thing though, women like you want to get pregnant from a complete stranger and leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:03 AM
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It goes against my moral value and I don't want to take advantage of women who are in poor finincial situations, support the exploitation and commodification of sex, and have sex outside of romance
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:25 AM
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Thank you for sharing your story, it's shitty that your former husband was an asshole. I definitely want to be the man taking responsibility as a father honestly, I want to be involved in my kids life and teach them all the shit I learned. I just want a society where men and women can maintain a happy healthy life long relationship. Life is already hard as it is and as a man I want to make it easier for as much people as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:22 AM
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But what if the father was a good and caring person would women still leave them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:30 AM
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I am talking about women leaving good and caring biological father, like having aversion to biological fatherhood
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:28 AM
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Yeah no problem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:26 AM
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The fear I am talking about involves women proactively wanting to be single mothers ie leaving the biological father completely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:57 PM
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We don't have to be complete slaves to environmental pressures in fact humans are capable of changing the environment. Some animals are capable of changing their environments as well so it's not a sin to change the environment to meet our need. You liberals romanticize freedom but when it comes to changing society or environment for the better you are like 'we have to accept it and we shouldn't do anything about it's' This ideology created doomers and pessemestic people who do nothing but bring …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:56 PM
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Yeah that makes a lot of sense actually
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:52 PM
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So you think this is how humans should be that men and women are biologically incapable of being in life long relationships? Do you think we have to go back to this way of living?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:34 PM
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That is my folk theory as well like if men were to be good people than single mother wouldn't be so frequent or common. I just want to believe that it's possible for men and women to be in loving life long relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:29 PM
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Most things in life are long and difficult process
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:26 PM
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So If women are presented with loving and caring partners you'd think they would want to be with that partner for life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:25 PM
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I am not doubting you I do believe most single women didn't choose this as their first choice. But the bigger picture of what I am trying to communicate is that I am afraid men and women cannot be in a loving relationship. I want to believe we as society can produce healthier and good men and women who can be in a loving relationship. It's just frustrating that know believes we can do it or come close it's almost a taboo to want a better society full of better people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:23 PM
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Yeah I do mean the fourth one. Do you think if we reduce poverty things will change for the better?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:00 PM
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Divorce isn't wrong what bothers me is the romantisatiom and hyperfixation of divorce in modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:47 PM
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I think you maybe correct here since my irrational fear was developed from the articles I read. I read articles regarding tribal society and these authors always highlight the fact biological fatherhood doesn't exist and how divorce is common and love doesn't last and it seems like they want that for our society
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:45 PM
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I am not here to bash on single mother hood, I could empathize with them in those situations
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:44 PM
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I don't want humans to end up like elephant herds, I don't want that to be the harmonious state of humanity. I want mother and biological father's to exist harmony I don't want to believe men and women are incapable of loving each other for life. I have OCD and I grew up attached to this model of romance
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:44 PM
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This could be fixed hypothetically but changing our economic system
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:22 PM
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Your third paragraph frightens me, it's the very fear thats been haunting me for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:22 PM
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Like where?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:20 PM
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Is this going to be way more common and dominant in the future? Like if patriarchy we're to be abolished would we end up living like elephants where women and men go their own way?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:20 PM
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I wouldn't count lesbians to be part of this scenerio.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:18 PM
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It's not so much as being proud of being a single mother bothers me but the thought that women actively want this for themselves. But I understand what you mean, maybe these are just irrational thoughts I have
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:16 PM
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A lot of my problems are deeper and more complex then "oh man I am not getting laid". Plus I care more about getting a girl friend and maintaining that relationship for life that's how I define success. Or at least a part of it. For me success is about maintain as much relationships as possible for as long as possible, acquiring as much as knowledge as possible, and feeling connected with the universe and finding inner peace. These are things that makes someone successful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:35 PM
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Nope not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:03 AM
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How are girls smarter than boys do you have a study to back that up. Even if it's true is being a boy itself causing men to lag behind women or are there social factors involved here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:00 AM
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How do you define force monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:57 AM
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Smart take
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:53 AM
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Yeah it would still matter because it's more than just the past but how she perceived her past and her ideology. She bought the ideology of hookup culture which believes young people are incapable of love so they must spend their youth having casual sex and once they mature they settle down. This whole narrative is part of hook up culture not just casual sex itself. If she done this in the past she most likely believes this ideology and that romantic media has not had much of a positive impact o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:52 AM
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It really depends since promiscuity is used in negative connotation to me it means women who participate in hook up culture ie have sex outside of romantic relationships. I would rather that a women who had five boyfriends then women you had 2 fwb and one night stand for example. But the more important thing is their ideology, if they believe in the hook up culture ideology which entails young people are incapable of love and should have casual sex because they must explore their options before …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:46 AM
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That's not true exactly, I am not going to date promiscuous women because they go against my value and I want to be with a women who shares my value
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:39 AM
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I disagree because what if in the past she dated a Nazi and I rather not date someone who is ok dating a Nazi. Plus it's not about the number of partners that personally bothers me but the kinds of relationship she had in which she values sex differently than me, that's it my guy. What's up with this gender double standard here , I will want both my son and daughter to not participate in hook up culture. In fact I will teach this message strongly to my son cause men are pressured to become hook …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:57 AM
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Not all men who don't date promiscuous women is due to hatred of women. How is it men expect women to be promiscuous when they just break off the relationship. It's not like breaking a relationship is a based on insecurity is a bad thing. If men aren't causing harm by their dating standard then there is no fowl. Also why should men with low n count date women with higher n count not saying that you said that but I feel like that's what you are implying. Ngl you are coming off as a white knight h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:18 AM
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Based answer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:28 AM
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Based answer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:28 AM
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That's not a very nice thing to say to a religious individual
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:17 AM
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Based take, dating is about finding someone who meets your preferences as close as possible and some people don't seem to get that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:15 AM
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Where did you come up with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:09 AM
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Brilliant answe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:09 AM
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So you have the audacity to call me dumb for no reason? Again can you prove that for me it's just insecurity? Even if it's just insecurity why should I have to overcome it and date promiscuous women? Again you have not explained as to why we as men need to get over this. And to refute this you will say insecure men slut shame women and harm women. But can you prove insecurities alone cause men to behave this way. I know couple of insecure men and they couldn't hurt a fly even if they want to. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:08 AM
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I said in my comment that I wasn't making a comparison to promiscuity rather showing that your logic fails in certain situations. You claimed that " if you find a girl attractive and have strong chemistry rejecting her for x reason shows that your insecure. But this model fails when x equals something like racism. So no your model doesn't automatically denote to insecurities. To make it simple you need more information than you suggest to determine if it's actually insecurities and even if it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:25 AM
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Did you even read what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:45 PM
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For example a woman seeking a genuine relationship may have had 4 to 6 different partners in 10 years . I am ok with dating women like this In the general sense of engaging in sex with multiple partners without a relationship. I am not ok with dating these women but again that's just my dating preferences. First just admit you are insecure You don't know anything about me how can you come to the conclusion I am insecure? You need substantial evidence to prove I am insecure. If you met a girl, sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:24 PM
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I am no lost cause, I am the cause
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:10 PM
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I understand where you are coming from but I don't want to date a promiscuous women for various reasons. I am not going to shame women for their sexual past. With that said one of my dating standards for women is that they see sex as exclusively romantic. To be fair on my part I am virgin who never had a girl friend so I am not really being hypocritical here. Also how are we defining promiscuity here, is it just having multiple partners at the same time, having series of boyfriends or having cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:51 PM
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Why is it important to figure out which gender is hornier like what can we do with that information and how does it explain our behaviors?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:01 PM
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That's why I made this post to combate my cognitive biases. I never claimed women didn't go through these struggles but wanted to know if they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:57 PM
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Thank you for sharing your experience, I definitely have gone through something similar myself in the romantic department. I just want to say that just because its your problem doesn't mean you can't get help from your family and friends we are social animals for a reason. I think women are different than man in big ways is because I had little exposure to women and didn't really connect with anyone of them as friends and instead I was only exposed to high achieving women in my school and the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:14 PM
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Are you redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:44 AM
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Reddit is a prison
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:41 PM
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Oh I am a dude by the way lol. I am glad you have a great support system some lonely men like me barely even have that. It's ok to feel lonely and want romance though. I am glad I am not part of mainstream dating culture I am doing my own thing and it feels nice to not conform to those stereotypes. I wish we had our own culture and community to call home
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:04 AM
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The freindzone thing is stupid honestly, I wouldn't reject a girl because she is my friend rather I would reject her because I don't find her attractive and or she isn't compatible with my life goals. That's literally it, it's not because she was friendly or she is a good friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:27 PM
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I can relate to your frustrations, I am in the same boat as you except I am one year younger than you. I can definitely see how men only wanting you for sex makes you feel and mess with your mind. Your struggles are 100%valid. We might be celibate forever but at least we have each other for support 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:21 PM
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Wait for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:13 PM
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What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:45 PM
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Yes I did
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:31 PM
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One if any other animal were in our place they would do the same. Also read Engles origin of family, state, and private property. Some of the stuff he says is outdated but he is largely correct on how class society arose. A lot of the social issues we humans face are a result of class society. The ruling class will do everything to oppress of so they could exploit our labor as much as possible. That's no to say women who don't have or want kids are less virtuous they still can be virtuous by con…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:30 PM
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Wait really, a bunch of women magazine and dating articles says that's just a myth and that most women have casual sex for pleasure alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:06 PM
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Wanting love and babies are more virtuous than wanting sex though. We are social animals so any behavior that increases bonding or social choesion is more virtuous to us. Babies are important so we can keep society alive and functioning. Love creates social cohesion between individuals and groups of individuals. Sex as you liberals define it does none of that by itself it's just for self satisfaction which isn't a bad thing but it's not better than prosocial behaviors or customs because again we…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:05 PM
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Women actually do this I thought it was a myth perpetuated by patriarchy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:01 PM
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I am not going to stop being a good person Goku, Aladar, and my Cousin inspired me to be a good person and I am grateful I am. I just don't expect romance or sex from my deeds
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:00 PM
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Blame every problem on women or promiscuity. And look I don't like promiscuity or hook up culture but God damnit they are not the root cause of social issues or your issues. Lonliness and those who worship it as their gods are the root of all our problems. I am being poetic to express my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:58 PM
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Look mate I am not coming from a feminist perspective I am no sjw, I coming from paleontology community. I am tired of people always talking about those god damn archosaurs all the fucking time, muh dinosaurs like stfu. I just want to talk about mammals God damn it. So I can relate to the feminists on some level. Yes I am wierdo get used it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:53 PM
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Because it derails the topic of conversation, let me give you an example let's you and your friend were talking about marvel movies and this other person joins in and starts talking about sports thus derailing the conversation. But this isn't the only time every time the two friends talk about marvel movies the sports guy constantly interrupts and makes every conversation about sports
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:39 PM
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0 gang let's go
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:58 PM
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Sex positive feminism is the hegomonic model of feminism that exist in our mainstream media
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:10 AM
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I am curious you are a purple pill so what things do you agree with the red pill? Btw I agree what you wrote up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:09 AM
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Well why were you fooling around with someone you would call a trainwreak don't you have any self respect Is there a law that says you cannot keep in touch with someone. So you didn't feel emotional towards a ONS wtf, what are you a robot. You will loose your ability to pair bond my dude 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:06 AM
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This is why both gender should really empathize with each other and understand our struggles and help eachother out. We are social animals after all we exist to help eachother out 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:01 AM
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How does op think onlyfans and prostitution are privaleges?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:09 AM
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You restored my faith in women, I thought I was the only one who avoided ONS and FWB. I find modern dating culture hegomonic and not leaving room for other models
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:59 AM
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You and me sister
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:56 AM
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You didn't get attached to your ONS and the girl you were fooling with?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:55 AM
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Married people can be a hook up warrior in fact most 30 year old married people are hook up warriors. Marriage is part of hook up culture it's just at the end game. People said marriage and monogamy was just is but that didn't stop people from critiquing marriage and monogamy. So why should hook up culture be spared shouldn't it be critiqued. I understand incels and like critique hook up culture in mediocre ways and often misogynistic ways but don't you think there could be a progressive critiqu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:22 AM
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Can you link me the article?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:13 AM
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Why are people so adment of removing all romantic gestures away from romance? To me you all are trying to stripping romance. What is romance if it's not kissing, sex, hand holding and cuddling? Is it nothing more than chemicals in our brains. If so what makes these chemical activate in our brain if physical gestures don't? You hook up warriors are especially admant on seperate sex from love as if love is an evil tyrant oppressing sex. I feel like I am the only one who sees physical acts of intim…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:06 AM
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I am going to need evidence for that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:57 AM
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I cannot think of anything low key if all men became monks we would be in a better world
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:56 AM
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This is a complicated topic especially when involving prostitution. You maybe correct when you say sex doesn't equate love but you cannot deny their is a relationship between the two. Sex is proven to release oxytocin the bonding hormone as well as other hormones that promote social behavior and bonding. I believe the commodification of sex is what created a bigger gap between sex and love. Since some prostitutions are coreced into that, they have to give up sex from love to make money but they …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:36 AM
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Your welcome 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:18 AM
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Kissing does not equal love by your logic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:59 PM
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That's terrible thing to do, I am sorry he did that to you, you didn't deserve to be ghosted
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:45 PM
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You and me sister
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:42 PM
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Yes but men have the right to find true love in their 20's they shouldn't be pressured out of it. But yes the anti women stuff is bullshit but understanding your struggles is important I would say the lack of understanding your struggle is the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:34 PM
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You are just jealous of my optimism
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:23 PM
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How do you define marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:14 PM
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Maybe they want to marry you but didn't take sex Ed but is willing to learn and be there for you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:11 PM
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But when it comes to sex, people are ok with leaving the other person not that there is anything wrong with that but I wouldn't feel comfortable being with someone who can easily abandon me after being intimate with me. But that's just me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:10 PM
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You are correct here honestly, we ought not care about virginity but rather how women view sex. If we see sex as exclusively romantic then we would want a women who sees sex as exclusively romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:06 PM
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Yeah but the first child is still part of your life and you still love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:00 PM
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It depends some women do wait till marriage like religious women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:58 PM
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Op I am bored so I am going to say this if men knew women faked orgasm they will all become monks and travel to the mountains to learn the secrets of the Buddha and dedicate their lives to studying. They will no longer care about sex and drop the red pill. And I myself will start a cult out of sheer boredom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:55 PM
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It gets wierder trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:52 PM
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You must enjoy abandoning the people who love you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:49 PM
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Historically speaking the conception of virginity was created to ensure paternal certainity to transmit wealth. I think it's more so the idea that women have choice to be virgins while for men it's not viewed as a choice. So to men you seem to retrain yourself from casual sex and hold a romantic view of sex which some guys including me want from a women. This is not to say virgin women aren't horny but rather they are confident in their values. I think they make a big deal out of wanting a virgi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:09 PM
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Why do you think that is the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:56 AM
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So women don't suffer from inferiority complex and existential crisis?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:53 AM
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That's why we need to do extensive research, we could also look at tribal societies and how they do things and even other mammals. We were able to create mouse embryo without eggs and sperm so maybe we will invent something crazy in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:39 AM
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So what are so supposed just let bad shit happen to us and to others. How are you any different than the neocons who profess war is human nature, poverty is human nature and there is nothing we shouldn't do anything about it. I hate people like you who stop us from envisioning a better world, people like you are just don't have confidence of changing the world so you project your insecurities on other you are jealous of us day dreamers cause you got no imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:36 AM
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But we have to do something, that is the purpose of humans to make life better beyond our biology
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:28 AM
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Well you said you don't struggle with those things I mentioned in my post
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:43 AM
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So what men in their 20's are not allowed to want LTR and instead focus on racking up numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:43 AM
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That sort of explains it but even so don't you struggle with inferiority complex and existential crisis?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:34 AM
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That's why there is political institutions to oppress women and to discourage cheating. On another note do you have a paracosm, I say that because of your user name?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:30 AM
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It really wouldn't change hook up culture that much I am afraid. If you want to defeat hook up culture there are better ways to defeat hook up culture. A bunch of liberal women are obsessed with body count and defend hook up culture to retaliate against a stigma and to feel free because they felt enslaved in toxic and abusive relationship and society. So for us to defeat hook up culture and share our ideas we must divert from body count and slut shaming and instead sell people a better product, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:28 AM
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Few reasons one paternal certainity, two the belief that virgins don't like sex like non virgins so less likely to cheat, the desire to be her first and explore the new world of sex together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:14 AM
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I think you are nailing this on the coffins, it's good for us men to change our cognitive biases even when coming to dating. Now that I am reading these posts I feel like women are more relatable to me which makes it easier to empathize with you folks. I hope you find the husband your looking for but for now cherish your friends
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:10 AM
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Are you blue pill, red pill or any other color?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:58 AM
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Where do you fall in the dating political spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:38 AM
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Bro look I am on your side but why keep posting the same thing over and over. Like we get it you and I want virgins, that's cool 😎 The liberals here will give out the same boring answers, people are allowed to do what they want as long as you don't harm people bla blah. That's all they do and can do we shouldn't follow their footsteps and parrot our morality or desires like broken record instead we must achieve our goals. So go get a virgin instead of coming here and say it's ok to want a virgin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:37 AM
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Your word against the others here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:30 AM
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It's definitely way easier said than done, I think a therapist is needed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:13 AM
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Humans have changed the environment to meet our needs and some animals like beavers and elephants already do that. We humans are more than capable of changing the world to meet our needs. Imagine if we develop sci Fi level technology we might be able to do amazing things like star lifting, heck we might even create our own universe. We just need to work together as one. We shouldn't let the doubters stop us from making a better world for all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:12 AM
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There has to be a way around this, I hope anyway I just learned about en caul which happens to humans I probably could ask the speculation evolution subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:52 AM
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Thank you! But I will not forgive you for traumatizing me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:45 AM
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Is Prolapse common and fatal? With advancement in medical technology and better understanding of the human body I thought we can make it less painful This is silly but I read a paper that says animals that give birth can revert back to laying eggs, so maybe humans can go back to laying eggs through bioengineering https://www.quantamagazine.org/egg-laying-or-live-birth-how-evolution-chooses-20200518/ I get this maybe a silly idea but think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:44 AM
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Why does human birth suck compare to other animals? What is incontinence and prolapse? Can make pregnancy less painful?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:18 AM
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I hate you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:16 AM
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How do we know what the world is, what if we can change things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:15 AM
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Wait the body never recovers from giving birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:01 PM
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Thank you for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:53 PM
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I will take that as you being sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:45 PM
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Brilliant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:42 PM
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I would abolish dating and replace it with something better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:40 PM
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I know what you mean it sucks there is only a few wholesome men these days. Id believe your exes. I hope you find that wholesome man you are looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:38 PM
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Yeah but making friends seems impossible but I need to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:34 PM
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It's definitely something I need to work on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:33 PM
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I honestly don't maybe I believe women are superior gender
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:22 PM
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Yes this is exactly what happens to me honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:21 PM
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That's reductionist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:20 PM
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Yeah I guess I was wrong I think you are correct here, I can relate to dead pets all too well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:18 PM
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My psychiatrist diagnosed me with OCD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:17 PM
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I have a folk theory about this is that modern and past patriarchy are at odds with each other they both want women in contradicting ways to server patriarchy. But it's just my thoeory. I empathize with you, feeling like trapped like that. Society needs to be changed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:15 PM
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Yeah that's something humans do is we make assumptions. But we are also capable of disproving our assumption like what I am doing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:10 PM
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Yeah that's something humans do is we make assumptions. But we are also capable of disproving our assumption like what I am doing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:10 PM
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No I don't actually
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:09 PM
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How are gender roles used as metric of attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:52 PM
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But that's not existential crisis I think, existential crisis is like about life and death.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:51 PM
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I love this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:49 PM
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Yeah the existential dread gets scary to face as you grow older
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:45 PM
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Yeah but this is difficult I have negative feelings towards my mom and how she treated me. But I can feel empathetic in times like when my brother yells at her or when she is sick
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:42 PM
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Yo I have OCD let's go lol. But in all seriousness you are correct here after all life only cares about survival not being the best which is going to take time for me to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:41 PM
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It seems like their friendships were healthy to me at the time but you are right idk. I just assumed it which was incorrect of me to do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:39 PM
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I mean I think so but she always picks fights with people from family members to other people for irrational reasons. It's how she was raised unfortunately her parents weren't the best
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:37 PM
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Yes I do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:33 PM
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I know exactly what you mean I have a friend irl who is a cool dude but he seems emotionally detached unfortunately but it's fun hanging out with him. Thank you for sharing your experience with me. What kinds of insights do you have in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:32 PM
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I fear all the time that I will die alone. I'm 30 and I've never even been kissed. I that really does hurts honestly, I wish I can give you a hug. Get involved with your hobbies and friends which I think can really help you out. I don't have hobbies and my close friends are too busy but when I am with my friends I felt happy and content with life and when I am doing my hobbies I felt the same way. Maybe some of us don't get to experience true love but we are here for each other. I get jealous, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:26 PM
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No I meant like people cannot just not think it's like saying don't think about pink elephant but you do it anyways. I do plan on seeing a therapist real soon hopefully they can help
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:17 PM
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Thank you for sharing your experience, I have not been in poverty but when I was young my parents were struggling with money and those things were shitty. I respect you for sticking to your values that's something even I have a hard time doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:14 PM
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Yeah I see what you mean it's just I have not really interacted with a woman who is also not doing that great in a deep and meaningful way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:06 PM
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Thank you for sharing your experience with me I appreciate it 😊 I will rise above it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:57 PM
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Burden I don't mind, I know I am wierd but the idea that I created life would be awesome to me that I know it came from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:50 PM
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Why do caution against placing too much emphasis on fictional characters?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:48 PM
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I was going for a catch all sort of thing not just dating. But you are correct I need to replace my faulty thought process and I have been but I was to focused on expectations so I give up easily. I plan on seeing a therapist soon enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:39 PM
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I watched this anime where this girl felt inferior to the smartest girl and fastest girl and felt like she doesn't have anything to be proud of and to top that of her crush has been spending time with her rival so she feels distant from them. This was the first time I cried in a while. I was actually surprised to see a women struggling with inferiority complex relating to academiaThat's what inspired me to write this post. I also saw silent voice and ride your wave which I realized girls did get…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:32 PM
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I feel old like I am closer to death and I cannot stop thinking about that OCD is the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:24 PM
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I think you misunderstood the thought process your talking about is not romance but my inferiority complex. I learned it through my academic experiences not romantic sub plots
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:23 PM
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Yeah that's true, I have only talked to them superficially, it's just they don't seem to struggle from inferiority complex like I do. But to be fair I also was aversed to men who seemed like they didn't struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:19 PM
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I am old though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:15 PM
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This is the problem with mainstream folks and toxic positivity you guys think we can control our thoughts but in reality our thoughts can be involuntary as part of a mental disability like OCD or something else. We were conditioned to see ourselves on the negative side of comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:14 PM
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What's faulty about romantic thought process?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:11 PM
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I am 23
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:10 PM
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If we go through the same struggles how come some people have it easier and better outcome. Where does the need to compare ourselves with others come from? I don't think it comes from no where or withinus though I think it's our academic culture and sooner we recognize that we can stop it .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:08 PM
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I am sorry you had to experience you don't deserve that, thank you for sharing your experience, I hope you recoverd from that terrible event
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:04 PM
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You do have a point here I was listing some generic stuff men go through but at the end I mentioned feeling of inferior and having existential crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:03 PM
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No that's not it, we compare with others because we live in a competitive driven economy. We compete with each other's for jobs because we have to. If we are not the very best we won't get that job. I chose to focus on women mainly because I was never close friends with women in highschool they always felt distant from either because they were to smart or they had big friendship circles
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:02 PM
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It would invalidate my childhood experiences growing up with romantic subplots
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:00 PM
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I am talking about intelligence and academics who cares about looks or getting dates, to me my jealousy is primarily focused on career and academics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:58 PM
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What kind of struggles did you face?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:57 PM
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So you never had interest in forming a relationship but experienced crushes? I disagree with you, jealousy is ok it's just we have to use it in a productive manner
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:56 PM
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But where I am coming from is more so no matter how much some people struggle we won't ever be good as the very best
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:54 PM
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My image of women were shaped by my high school experiences. Most women I knew were these really smart women who took AP classes and were rich and the mid tear women in my school didn't seem to struggle with low self-esteem or bullying like me they still had large friendship circles with the high tier women. I barely had any friends in highschool like I would only hangout with one dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:53 PM
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Thank you for sharing your experience I appreciate it 😊 I have a questions though, I want to focus on making friends and my hobbies but I am scared if I do I will loose interest in finding romance so how do I overcome that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:47 PM
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I believe but how come I don't really feel it deep within my guts. I always fall back to envying women for all their success and even their ability to give birth as weird as that sounds
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:44 PM
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No I don't unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:37 PM
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I guess I don't because of my personal experiences and I never hear them have these specific troubles. I could go on about my past and my ocs but for now I am giving you all the chance to potentially prove me wrong. I want my mind to change I want to feel empathy towards women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:34 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:48 PM
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Lonliness and it's army of degenerates
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:15 AM
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Yeah I understand what you mean but what I am trying to get at that's not the real contention here in my opinion. The gender divide isn't the problem it's what to do with your prime. Toxic masculinity says men in their prime shouldn't settle while women in their prime should is just a distraction in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:35 AM
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Essentially women like to move around and socialize more with outgroups but form less close kinship based alliances, even without individual promiscuity. Just by having control in the decision of where to live both genetic and intellectual diversity was increased. I am confused could you elaborate more here. I don't understand the last sentence in particular
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:29 AM
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Those are nothing compared to urine and feces mate plus you have to look at it from other perspectives like people with OCD like me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:26 AM
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If I was a successful and handsome men I would not date at actually. Instead I would focus on traveling the world and befriending all the mammals in the world. I want to pay respect for our ancestorial cousins. If I had enough money I would build a museum dedicated to our synapsids ancestors and pay respect to them, with out them we wouldn't be here and I wouldn't be playing Mario. Honestly dating is to scary it's filled with toxic people and hook up warriors there are no real romantics anymore …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:54 AM
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You are making this into a double standard when in reality it isn't. I personally believe people should settle in their prime regardless of gender but you might say that's still a bad thing which shows this isn't gender thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:48 AM
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So you are admitting everyone does it /jk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:38 AM
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I disagree I think that is just the stereotype I know bunch of men who don't like casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:37 AM
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Do you think it could also be due to self fulfilling prophecy. Like the believe men only want sex or that all relationships are going to be bad so why not have casual sex instead
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:36 AM
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Bro sex involves organs used to release human waste of course it's icky
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:34 AM
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But promiscuity in the past was expressed differently, for instance there was no concept of fwb or suppressing feelings nor leaving your partners. If a women fucked a person it's usually someone in her tribe who she could see everyday with or it's someone related to her husband, neighbor, or inlaws. Basically promiscuity was used as a social bonding mechanism. What's happening now is you fuck someone dump them than move on. This is mostly seen in asocial organism and some social organisms. But t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:32 AM
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I actually disagree not having sex is better for me honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:21 AM
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What a based man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:17 AM
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How do you women keep male friends that long, even as male I have a hard time. Tell me your secret please
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:16 AM
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It sure feels like every is looking for casual sex and everyone has experienced a casual sex phase
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:49 PM
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It's really hard to put them in particular group but they have some characteristics for one they are very pessemestic and nihlistic about life and two they think that the bad things that happen in life are eternal and there is nothing we can or should do about it. Some of these people are doomers, hook up warriors, relationship anarchist, and some mixture of liberals and conservatives. Another thing they tend to do is victim blame. I said cult to make it poetic but what I really mean is a social…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:59 AM
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It's not just these three issues but a cult who worships these things as gods and force their pessemestic beliefs onto us I am exaggerating to make it sound poetic btw
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:36 AM
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Alienation, Atomization, and lonliness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:30 AM
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This gender war is distracting us from the real issue in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:11 AM
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I am straight but I always had special affection for villians, I like villians more because I admire their thirst for power and their willingness to get it all. Megatron, Van Kliess, and Pontiff Sulyvaan are my favorite villians
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:50 PM
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Who is the we in we are the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:37 PM
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What doesn't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:19 PM
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My point is that casual sex in the modern isn't the correct way humans have to be and infact it could product of environmental and cultural factors rather than evolutionary. Not saying evolution doesn't have a any influence I just don't think it's as strong as we make it out to be
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:45 PM
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How sex is express differed across species, some can reproduce asexually, have both male and female genitalia, lack penises entirely like in some birds. There is no absolute correct way just which one is most effective given context
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:38 PM
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I also think men have the wrong understanding of hook up culture and how to combat it which is something you folks disagree but I am just saying there are better ways
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:33 PM
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But my question then is if our desire to want low n count does it mean we need to abolish this culture and also is promiscuity in the casual sex (not polyamory) sense a product of biology or culture
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:30 PM
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No they are not hindering women in finding a partner but they hinder women from finding a partner with a lower count just like women not wanting kids hinders them from finding a partner who wants kids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:27 PM
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This is a very interesting post actually. I personally always have thought my preferences were from culture rather than biological phenomen. It's not that I think promiscuous women are evil but to me they trigger thoughts about those hook up culture articles that paints casual sex as empowering and something everyone does which I believe sort of invalidates the romantic subplot I grew attached to
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:23 PM
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It's not so much as body counts for me but rather their attitudes and beliefs about sex and romance that matters to me. Like if they believe that people in their 20s just want to have sex and settle at 30and have pesemismistic attitudes beliefs about romance and that these things are eternal part of humanity it's a personal red flag. But largely I do want to avoid hedonistic and pessemestic people in general because these traits could make my OCD worse. I don't think it's a personal preference o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:57 PM
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That's just you though other people are different and I don't think it's correct to judge us for it you know? If you don't care about your partner's past more power to you but some of us do and that should be fine as well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:28 PM
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Yes you are correct here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:25 PM
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It shows off your attitude and values after all we want feathers of the same flock.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:24 PM
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Are some promiscuous women obsessed with marrying low n count man?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:23 PM
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Uncomfortable feelings are natural part of life, the past is really important if not we wouldn't teach it in schools. I did some bad things in my past and I would want my partner to know
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:16 PM
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To me it sounds like we need to raise better men but that will require collective effort which I think can be done. But people need to be optimistic about making better men instead of saying men will always do bad things it's in their nature and we shouldn't do anything about it. This pessemestic mindset is very toxic and needs to be challenged. I am not saying I am a saint but I am getting better as a person and I am working hard to be a good person and learning from my mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:12 PM
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We are social animals we evolved to form social bonds because it increased our survival skills
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:07 PM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:55 AM
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No way you have to be joking
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:40 AM
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Cheers to my fellow Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:37 AM
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No but the thing is we are not doing anything about cheating or abusive men we are not working on making new generation better that's the problem. It's like whoopty do we have toxic men instead of solving this issue let's teach women to be weary of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:37 AM
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Not trying to start an argument I am just pointing out that you sound like a genuine liberal, I even said I didn't mean it to come off as an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:32 AM
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Can I copy your answers? I would also add lack of critical thinking skills
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:31 AM
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she votes Republican (a surprising number of women do) You have to introduce to me to them I thought they were as rare as a unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:28 AM
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Man you are a genuine true liberals aren't you not saying that as a bad thing btw
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:27 AM
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Preach to the choir
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:23 AM
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In my opinion it has to be mutual where both parties are allowed to vent to eachother and help eachother out. Also still vent to other support networks and seek therapy when needed. I would get upset a girl if she only vents to me and never changed or tries to change and refuses to get more help. I would definitely leave her if she blames me for her inability to change
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:12 AM
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It is because we are ideologically driven animals, even if we are not aware of it. What's so funny what I said was poetic ok
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:09 AM
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That's the problem why even make a clear dividing line between platonic and romantic relationships though. Lines are often fuzzy in nature and things can change in nature. Let things happen organically don't lear ideology restrict romance let blossom into a beautiful flower
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:04 AM
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In my personal belief the correct way for relationships to occur is through friendships and bonding organically without forcing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:00 AM
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When things start looking better for the environment honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:58 AM
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Doesn't putting people in box restrict freedom and last time I checked liberals and progressives hate idea of putting things into boxes. They only reason why I have not asked out my female friends is because I don't find them physically attractive but that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:58 AM
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Why can't they be good friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:54 AM
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Do women with high n count go for men with low n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:42 AM
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You you guys pressure and generalize your ideology onto us. Most who do settle down because that's what society expects from people. We are supposed to have casual sex in our youth and when we are mature we settle down. This narrative is hegomonic from my perspective and it doesn't really allow nuances. Also hook up culture ideology just like red pill and manosphere ideology sees it's truth as eternal and part of human nature and use nature to defend itself from criticism. No one wants to be cri…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:19 AM
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The issue isn't with married women but women who had a promiscuous past that are now married. Same goes for married men who had a promiscuous past. For clarity I am not shaming them for their past but rather explaining that they have strong biasis on dating norms. While red pillers biases stem from evolutionary psychology blue pill biases stem from hook up culture and liberal dating norms as seen on how I met your mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:31 AM
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Thank you I appreciate the offer 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:31 AM
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Based goats are awesome 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:33 PM
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I have a stuffed elephant named trumpet
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:58 PM
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I am sad that dogs don't like hugs, who am I supposed to hug now 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:41 PM
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Yeah I believe you got this correct, I am curious where does the idea I am missing out come or why does it feel like it's amplified in modern society more. Why do some men feel like they are missing out to the point they feel pressured to sleep around while others don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:35 PM
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But people do live under a rock so we are more gullible to what people say that's why we need to be critical
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:32 PM
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The sex positive folks don't want to control our innate urges they believe we should act in favor of them because they are natural. For them self regulation is a sin because it restricts autonomy and personal freedom. I noticed that a lot of behaviors based on impulse, compulsion, and habits such as procrastination are being held as positives and any attempts to self control is because society is pressuring you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:09 PM
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I used to have his hair but regrowing it, never getting a haircut again I have learned myself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:55 AM
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Does this mean men are treated as sperm banks in the getting to know phase?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:41 PM
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This is just a theory but I think people see people being proud of themselves as boasting. I say this because I am like this but more power to yourself for being a single mom
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:36 PM
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I though that's exactly how women at least in their 20's think of men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:34 AM
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Low key
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:13 AM
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Even if that is true, a bunch of people suffer from low self-esteem and everyone handles it differently. Just like what the liberals say we are diverse set of individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:30 PM
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No offense to op but how did this get posted and my post didn't get through wtf is wrong with PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:34 PM
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Some of these answers disappointing to be honest, I am not a women but I want to say something about this demonization of self esteem. Self esteem by itself isn't the problem everyone has insecurities and will always have insecurities but it doesn't mean that people with low self esteem are bad, it's how they react to their low self esteem is what's important
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:33 PM
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They don't like thoughtful or meaningful conversations here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:32 PM
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No actually capitalism doesn't tell us this, it's liberals, conservatives from the petty bourgeois class that tells us. Redditers and discord user tells us this. These people are the foot soldiers of capitalism and they act as the social police for capitalism. They rather worship the parasite that is ruining society instead of building a better society free from parasites. I cannot blame these parasites since it's in their nature for being parasites but I can blame those that worship these paras…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:31 PM
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This my issue with right wingers too is that they blame women for the shit we face instead of capitalism. They worship the same people who put us in this situation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:28 PM
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think what makes it hard for women to be sympathetic to this is because ultimately it’s men putting women at the center of men’s unhappiness. That women alone are the ones responsible for this rise in male misery and suffering. It can’t be a lack of social support, mental health care, supportive family, declining economy, the toxic echo chambers etc. It’s women and women alone You are correct here but when we complain we don't have social system, financial security, happy family, and health care…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:21 PM
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It's not men or women who cannot accept reality, it's everyone who cannot accept reality. Reality is ever-changing and humans are capable to change reality that is our nature but most of us don't realize that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:12 PM
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I tried to make that into a post but mods won't let it through I wonder why? I believe these reasons plus more gave rise to the modern conditions we live in. Modern sitcoms are the platform in which hook up culture and modern dating culture sell their product (ideology). They tend be relatable but also exaggerative inorder to sell their idea. I personally don't like How I met your mother it's not a fun show for me. The Office is where it's at
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:10 PM
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Do I try to post this but the moderators keep taking this down where I try to examine things systemically I look at hook up culture as a small business trend and capitalizing on the failing business of romance ( which isn't romance culture's fault but the poor conditions it's forced to exist in). Hook up culture is selling people the ideology of having sex without relationships in youth because they are too immature and dating serious when they mature up. It makes claims of why people should buy…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:33 PM
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Exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:33 AM
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Raccoons are awesome 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:33 AM
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More power to you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:53 AM
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Give me the virgin 30 year olds I will happily take them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:50 AM
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Warning this could be triggering I have unhealthy relationship with porn and I think it's responsible for giving me an unhealthy view of women. I feel like when I get horny I need to view women as sexual objects to get off. I don't feel horny when women feel autonomous or happy I like it better when they fake it. Yeah this messed up. Porn coupled with idea romance is dying is making me feel pressured to have casual sex and give up which also goes against my values. So I really hate porn and what…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:48 AM
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Stfu Disney is awesome so is super Mario galaxy it is you fuckboys who have a monopoly on dating scene./ Jk Rowling
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:31 PM
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Spoken like a true liberals 😎 lol But seriously though you still are reluctant to actually talk to the other side and just shove your advice which doesn't have any impact on people like me and expect us to change immediately. This is my issue with liberals and even conservates when we tell you something you immediately jump to advices with learning about us as person you rely on assumptions and shallow advices. Best thing to do is either understand where we are coming from or leave us alone beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:22 PM
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I want to live in a culture where I'd doesn't exist, I don't wanna judge but from your username you will never understand us principally romantics. I don't want kids to be exposed to casual sex and I don't want to take romantic media away from them by. Not everyone who is critical of hook up culture wants to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:37 PM
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The real world is disgusting and revolting, it's in a state of decay. For all those who preach that the world sucks is incorrect . We humans specifically evolved to change the world you all deny our human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:30 AM
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Hopefully he will be your last 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:25 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:22 AM
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Based!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:14 AM
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I don't want casual sex I want it to go away and let romance become the monopoly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:12 AM
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Did some hunter gather society have social concept of virginity?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:26 AM
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I don't know why these people this more complicated than it needs to be
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:15 AM
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What is wrong with my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:29 AM
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That's a societial conditioning thing as opposed to pure instinct. Sure you could argue that humans have capacity to feel attraction towards more people than spouse but from hearing other people that wanes down
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:10 AM
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Literally because I am a virgin that's it. But the reasons 4 and 3 are important but my partner doesn't have to be virgin just hold similar values to me. I only prefer a virgin if possible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:06 AM
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I wouldn't just say poor emotional health but also has a specific ideology around emotional expression and regulation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:03 AM
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Oxytocin is released during sex which is a neurotransmitter that increases the feelings of attachment and bonding. Sex might not be sole reason why we get attached but it sure helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:02 AM
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Yeah in modern society the roles are flipped and women's are becoming emotionless. They are told to suppress their emotions and avoid catching feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:54 AM
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But it is a sin to get attached in modern society for both gender. Feels are to be avoided at all cost
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:52 AM
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People are obsessed with evolutionary psychology like it's the Bible. But human behavior unlike genes can change much faster in accordance to new environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:51 AM
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Why not after sex I am curious?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:49 AM
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Yeah men do get more attached than women because oxytocin is released during sexual intercourse which is a neurotransmitter that increases attachment and bonding. There are articles showing men exhibiing coitus dysphoria. Theoretically both genders should be able to experience this but the thing is women are being told supress their emotions because it's cool and liberating. There are blogs and articles in which women brag about not catching feelings and ability to have sex with no strings attac…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:48 AM
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