This goes both for chads and for thugmaxxed or otherwise high status men.

Men with options, men that are used to sleeping around and having their pick of women, are insanely hard to lock down and keep as a boyfriend/husband if you’re not Stacy.

Like with Walmart relationships, if you’re with Cletus the 350 pound hillbilly with 3 missing teeth, he’s not going anywhere no matter what you do. He doesn’t care that you’re not a supermodel either, you both can still fuck like bunnies and pump out 8 kids no problem until he dies of a heart attack at 50.

But for a high value man that’s been showered with female attention his whole life, just showing up isn’t enough to keep him. Most average young women don’t know that they have to do more than exist though, and are completely blindsided when he cheats or dumps her.

I’m not saying it’s impossible for a Becky to secure a Chad or high status man for ltr or marriage, but I really only see it with those slightly insane “dark feminine” gold diggers that know how rare these men are, and put in the work to keep his eyes on her during courting. For most women that want princess treatment just for existing though, unfortunately that is only found with ugly simps if you’re not Stacy. Otherwise, Chad is shared and rotated between women and you’ll never truly have him.