I am 5'8, maybe a 6 in looks, and don't make much money (I make below average income). I am also an intensive gamer, a math nerd, play silly card games (mtg), am a metalhead and don't do sports.

However, I can cook, am relatively clean (house and body), dress reasonable (just pants and blouse, but with good fit) and keep myself groomed. I can talk passionate about subjects I'm interested in, can listen intentfully to subjects others are interested in, and give off calm and safe vibes thanks to mindfulness and meditation.

I've had shit to endure in my life, physical and mental abuse in my youth, mental problems later, have had a lot of therapy. I survived.

Women are attracted to me, not all of them, obviously. Enough that I feel comfortable dating if I wanted to. Not through apps though, but I don't like chatting, it exhausts me and doesn't feel real enough.

But my self-confidence, self-sufficiency, my passionateness and ability to make others feel good clearly have an impact, and I hear it often. People draw to me, even if they just got to know me, and I can have physical contact quite naturally.

Am I a miracle? Or did I just subscribe to the right mindset?