TeRrIfIeD

Incelvester · 2020-03-19T16:52:14+00:00

I'd be uncomfortable. Look at them the wrong way or say the wrong thing and your reputation is destroyed forever.

Gribbo69 · 2020-03-19T15:11:13+00:00

Fucking idiots.

the-unflattering-6 · 2020-03-19T16:45:24+00:00

Fuckin' idiots.

Ourmutant · 2020-03-19T17:01:37+00:00

Lmao social media feminists are so afraid of the boogeyman that only exists in their minds

pandolfio · 2020-03-19T18:00:58+00:00

What they don't seem to get is that it's a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Of course, if you brainwash every woman in the country that men are dangerous predators, then any encounter with them is going to be awkward. And there's no way out for men to show they're innocuous (and definitely not more dangerous than women can be, btw).

So under those situations, when a man asks a woman for sex, she may be so terrified he's going to kill her if she declines, and so she's going to say yes, but later on say she was raped.

Just look at the Aziz Ansari story - he did not force her, he had no professional authority on her, he did not prevent her from leaving. Yet, she saw it as sexual assault, because she 'had no choice', because she was afraid he might hurt her.

ZarathustraX13 · 2020-03-19T19:06:32+00:00

I'm a man. I wouldn't be comfortable in a room full of strange women. Get the fuck over yourselves.

Gribbo69 · 2020-03-19T15:10:37+00:00

Fuckin idiots

MyNameBlank · 2020-03-19T16:52:16+00:00

Piper Perri meme

chambertlo · 2020-03-19T17:42:26+00:00

Fragile, weak women. That’s all that comprises modern feminism.

TragicOptimistic · 2020-03-19T17:28:35+00:00

I work with men. I'm the only girl in my workplace. I'm often stuck in rooms with them. They smell great and they're really funny!

Charmingaxelotl · 2020-03-19T18:57:43+00:00

Literally shaking

killingtimeitself · 2020-03-19T20:26:35+00:00

This is getting pathetically ridiculous. Like ok, you have a fragile, immature, insecure personality and somehow this is men's fault???? Oh boy these creatures are...

I actually can't find the proper word for it

Drayelya · 2020-03-19T17:54:59+00:00

((((Rapists))))

mistergibzzz · 2020-03-19T19:08:58+00:00

I am also scared in a room full of girls

hawknose33 · 2020-03-19T19:46:39+00:00

I saw this on Facebook before and just could not get over the massive generalization they were making. Seeing this for the second time I have to wonder if it was made by a highschooler cuz that the only way I can see it making sense.

baronmad · 2020-03-20T02:39:29+00:00

That is how badly feminists understand men, a woman in room full of men are the safest person in the world. If one of those men choose to hurt her, guess what the rest of the guys would beat him so severly his only way to eat a meal is through a straw for the foreseeable future.

make-me-yours-please · 2020-03-20T08:02:21+00:00

All of my friends growing up were boys, even though I’m a girl. I also end up being the only 23 year old woman in a room full of 35+ year old burly ex military men when I go to D&D / board game night. I forget to be terrified each time damn it. 🤷🏼‍♀️

YeastBeast33 · 2020-03-19T18:44:13+00:00

feminism and sprinkles boahahahah

Mr_reddit53 · 2020-03-19T20:38:27+00:00

As a man i am terrorforsker in a room full of women

casteliacitysax · 2020-03-20T00:56:36+00:00

These women are idiots.

Terminal-Psychosis · 2020-03-20T01:06:20+00:00

A woman in a room full of men is ecstatic.

A man in a room full of these harpies better be cautious.

These people live in a fantasy world.

2020-03-20T09:14:32+00:00

I'd prefer a room of men. In my experience they are easier to talk to and less judgemental than women, but that's me just generalising from my experience. Women scare me tbh

KindPrecise · 2020-03-21T01:07:03+00:00

And as a gay man in a gay nightclub, I’m terrified when a straight women’s hen’s party comes into OUR room and thinks it’s a petting zoo.

globalistakkk · 2020-03-19T21:09:33+00:00

if these men are all convicts, ya...

joker38 · 2020-03-19T23:34:13+00:00

There are many bands with one woman and a number of men. These women are anything but terrified.

one, two, three

2020-03-20T06:26:16+00:00

These comments are scary lol

seanisgeynt · 2020-03-20T06:51:04+00:00

I'd actually be genuinely uncomfortable in a room filled with women, I like having a more equal gender divide or being with my own gender, because it's hard to relate to women when I'm not one. But if I was in that situation id probably try to use my charisma to my advantage and make a friend so that I can forget about it.

BlinkOfDoom · 2020-03-20T08:30:41+00:00

Probably late, but there's a saying in my country perfect for this situation:

"When you're a hammer, everyone looks like a nail."

make-me-yours-please · 2020-03-20T15:14:34+00:00

I also know quite a few men that are terrified of being in a room full of women. It’s very sad really. Most of them were abused by women so it’s understandable.

Roge2005 · 2020-03-20T03:58:23+00:00

what is ecstatic

ashenalways · 2020-03-19T19:46:23+00:00

I'm sure the guy would be kinda terrified too. Fake accusations ya know?

I'd be scared, if I'm honest. because of things that's been conditioned and instilled in me since birth, like, 'boys only want one thing' and 'you should never go out at night alone' 'walk with your keys in between your fingers', etc. crippling anxiety doesn't help, neither does a slight fear of strangers, especially those bigger then me (I am quite small, so that happens often)

Other personal experiences as well, like being stalked continusly at the bus stop untill I changed my routine to avoid being stalked, being catcalled and followed, and quite literally physically and verbally harrassed, looking into the eyes of a stranger who was quite openly and clearly mentally undressing you, (instances like this has happened at least a few times before the age of 11)

I am not trying to counteract any of y'all's arguments, nor am I saying I don't agree with you in some aspects, however, I don't appreciate calling us weak. We are what we are made to be, and it is QUITE hard undoing fear and routine that's been instilled within you since you were a child. Especially when those fears had been right in some cases, and the fear of that very thing may have quite literally saved your life, or your sense of owning yourself. Especially when such occurrences happen more often then not

I do, however, agree it can be a little over board, but whenever you have a real fear of these things, and society has placed it on YOU to prevent, one can never be to careful ya know..?

Again, not trying to counteract or start a fight, simply am trying to shed light on the reasonings behind why some things are the way they are :) it is bullshit that feminism makes women out to be the victims and men to be the abusers. We ALL have the capacity to be a victim, but not everyone has the compacity to be an abuser. But when that's ALL you see and hear about, when thats ALL you've experienced, directly or indirectly, the fear is THERE, and it's VERY real.....

And MOCKING us for it only "proves" their point. Only drives a wedge between them and you. And then you wonder why we can't trust you? Then you wonder why we're scared? Then you wonder why they turn to each other and get riled up instead of turning to you to be proven that you the individual, is nothing to worry about?

Maybe instead of making us feel insignificant, crazy, or just fucking stupid, maybe, just maybe you could try UNDERSTANDING where we're coming from. Maybe you could go out of your way to make someone feel safe if you feel as though or can pick up on the fact that they are worried..?

I, am a minor. I am 16. 16 years old. And already, I have been worried, scared, paranoid, and full out terrified for a NUMBER of reasons, MANY of which were the direct cause of someone who knew better, and just DIDNT CARE, like that old fucking man making goo goo eyes at me when I was five, who my dad fucking punched in the face, or my uncle fucking touching me in something that shouldn't be touched yet when I was 11. The guy that stalked me for 2 weeks at my bus stop to go to school, the fucking COUNTLESS cat callers that has harrassed me and my friends when we're trying to have fun at the mall or the arcade, and the one time.... The one time that things went beyond physical to full on assult by a coworker who felt intitled to my friends time during work hours, and she refused to report it because "stuff like this happens to everyone"

Maybe y'all could do everyone a favor and be a safe place instead of being a fucking jerk about something you THANKFULLY will probably NEVER gave to deal with or go through

Maybe then we'd stop being so worried about it

Title	TeRrIfIeD
Author	Arteemiis
Upvotes	303
Comments	58
Date	March 19, 2020 2:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AntiFeminists
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