Gents, HELP!! 🙏

After 20 years with my ex, 10years as bf/gf, 10years of marriage, a little boy and even younger girl, that she has now taken and accused me of all sorts - all unfound and without proof.

I am disabled and do not work, I am unable to drive and I am financially struggling - big time. I'm reliant upon handouts - for over 2 years now.

What can I do? She has changed so much and has turned horrible since we split (she is still with the guy she cheated on me with that caused the split).

We went 50/50 on equity in our old house and everything else. I own my new, much much smaller place now so no mortgage but the bills pile up.

I want to a) become financially indipendant again b) fking get at her!

ADVICE? EXPERIENCE? TIPS?

Appreciate you all🫶