This, I figure is my STBXW's hourly rate for childcare based on the court order. I'm assuming its a 24/7 job and so I just did the math and came up with 88 cents an hour, which means for me I spend less than an hour a day paying for this childcare, but even more important than that, I'm paying for my STBXW to stay the hell away from me and I'm becoming a healthier person with every day I have away from her.

I used to be lucky if I would get an hour of a day where I wasn't in some way focused on her and her constant bullying and crazy antics, now for the cost of less than an hour per day, I get my entire day back, and she changes diapers on a pittance.

It ain't much, but it's the comfort I've got.