So I'm in a predicament, and I honestly don't know how to proceed in this matter I'll do my best to make it breif brief

Child support issues, I don't mind paying but the issue that I'm having is my little one constantly cries when I have her, I'm a patient man but after 5-6 hours straight I get well annoyed to say the least. If I don't pay constant attention to her she'll cry the entire time. I've tried everything. Spoke with the ex about taking her for a few weeks hoping maybe it will help us both and I can pay attention to my son. She know wants child support for that time and redo child support for the time being. I can't afford that so I said I'll take her back on my normal days.

My oldest needs constant time off due to medical issues, or daycare issues and work told me to knock it off and find a new job if I can't solve it. I have no family to fall back on, there moved state or have recently passed.

If I give them up besides my weekend, can't afford it. If I stay as is I lose my decent paying job and can't afford it. If I take a lower paying job, can't afford it and will still have to pay for child support like I had the higher paying one (thanks ca!)

Honestly, it's just me she has plenty of people to help her, and her boyfriend who she cheated on me with. I got no one besides my two kids I'm trying to make a normal life with.

Not sure if this is the right sub but you all are very helpful too me when everything first went down so I decided to come here and ask for some advice.