I have 2 kids 14 and 7 and really hate the idea of putting them thru a breakup. But I also hate the idea of giving someone who does little and spends every dime they get “half” when they continually strive to make my life difficult.

I can live with the mildly toxic stew for the kids. But then I recognize easing out may be better. So a post-nup feels like a right way to have a productive discussion about dissolution on a productive timeline.

Anyone explore this?