I’ve been married 13 years have 3 kids. And I’m at the start of the divorce process. I’m finding that I am both at ease with the decision to separate (her decision not mine) and broken at the same time. I have days where I have not a care in the world when I think about the marriage coming to an end and then there are days that I look at my kids and I’m crushed. I just turned 36 and the day after my birthday is when I was told that she’s leaving and wants to co-parent. Where do I even go from here? And what do I do about the in-laws that influence the soon to be ex.