Hello brothers

My divorce was filed this past December, finalized in March. My ex wife and I have barely talked unless we had too since then.

Two nights ago, after going through counseling (my own decision), making the changes to better myself and moving back to my hometown, I decided to call my ex wife and have some closure on the issues we had in our past that ultimately led to our divorce.

After about a half hour conversation, we both forgave each other for the stuff that has happened and wished each other the best moving forward. It was a sincere conversation and for once she was actually sweet and sincere. Her behavior reminded me of when we first met.

The whole point of this post is, brothers, if you’re seeking closure with your ex, I wanted to briefly share this moment and let you know it’s possible. We all know how rough this process is. It’s an emotionally changing experience that will forever stay with us. However, it is possible to find peace. The closure that happened with me and my ex made me feel like a ton of bricks was lifted off my shoulders.

Have any of you had closure with your ex? Did you get the same experience?

God bless you all brothers.