My stbxw, through her lawyers, wants primary custody (55/45) visitation, child support , and half of everything including my retirement.

If I don't agree she'll bleed our community assets dry in litigation.

She refused to go to therapy or work on her issues. I'm so angry she has taken this approach in negotiating. I've been nothing but good to her and she dumps me and wants to take the kids, a support check, and half of my wealth and if I don't comply she will go nuclear.

There's no reason to be this way. But who says women are reasonable

Just get out of my life you cold hearted greedy selfish monster. I have to keep things civil for the kids.