My wife and I 35M & 33F have two children under the age of two with another one on the way, and to say the least the past six months of our marriage has been rough.

when we met, I had a really good job and I was working my way up the ranks and it looked promising, but I ended up losing that job and I spent a month trying to figure out what I needed to do.

When I lost that job, I could tell automatically that she had different feelings towards me. So I found an even better job building winter turbines in North Dakota, we are from Kansas.

After almost a month of being up there, she told me that she wanted a divorce and the best version of herself is without me.

It wouldn’t hurt me so much if she wasn’t pregnant, and she doesn’t message or call about the kids. Send me pictures. Let me know how her doctor appointments for the baby are, nothing.

The only time she wants to say anything to me is over the bills.

It’s been about two months now, and I still do not know how to cope. With this new project the old me would’ve been head over heels and gung ho every day but the person I am now, I just feel so numb and empty from the moment, I wake up, all day at work, and it’s the worst when I get off and have to unwind by myself in a damn hotel room. All I can think about is my family.

Has anybody else ever went through a situation like this?

I’d love to hear some advice.