My wife and I are getting an amicable dissolution, we agree on the terms and we both dont want child support from each other. We are capable of supporting our child independantly. It is in the prepared document that is being given to the judge that based on the affadavits I am calculated to be the obligor. But that we request a downward variance of the support.

I guess I'm the obligor because the calculator says I make more, but according to the financial affadavit i have yet to sign and notarize, I notice that she is under reporting income from last year. Like in the neighborhood of $10k short. I know this because i did our taxes and know how much she made. I'm sure this is perjury but what I'm most concerned with is:

If the judge says no to the variance is the whole dissolution back to square one, or does he just say your dissolved, but you (me) get to pay support. At that point do I get a lawyer and bring up the discrepancy so I'm not getting shafted or do i bring it up now and set off a landmine which is likely to turn the whole thing adversarial