My ex moved today. I knew it was one of the days this week. They've been playing mind games, attempting to hide their new location, and wouldn't tell me when they were moving. They initially gave me a date, but it turned out to be wrong. Then they texted me, "Hey, I don't remember if I told you, but the big furniture is being moved today."

They are moving to the same place I will be moving to. The process for my application approval took about 3 to 4 weeks, and they moved in mid-March with family. My ex asked for a divorce right around the beginning of March. While this is purely speculation, I feel they may have been planning this before my ex asked for a divorce.

I’m now wondering what kind of situation I will be walking into when I return to the old apartment. My ex has said multiple times that she is taking the furniture in the apartment that belongs to her MIL, who lives with us, but I am not very confident about that statement. I’m still staying there and plan to remain until the end of the week. After that, I will move in with family and then to a rented house in the same complex where my ex has moved, starting the first of May.