It's not the money I make the most of that and she is being surprisingly reasonable about the separation agreement for now. It's not the house work, I do far more than my share now anyway. I feel like I have been a single dad for years so it's not that either. I don't even think it's her, at this point her leaving is definitely a good thing for me. I don't know, maybe just the unknown.

ETA: I'll be moving out of my house to a new place in 8 months.