My(m24) wife(f24) had just told me she isn't happy and has not been for quite some time. we have been married for 4 years. I am 100% blindsided by this. we have normal bouts like every other couple nothing serious. I pleaded with her to work things out with me, but she says she is only going to do it for the kid. Clearly i am not going to go day to day knowing this (I myself never had parents under the same roof). I thought you know maybe i can give my kid the life i never had. So, here i am on reddit at 1 a.m. trying to figure out how to cope with not being under the same roof as my 2 year old son every night. I guess i am here looking for advice on how to deal with all of these emotions.