A few questions. I'm preparing for nest (last?) mediation meeting. I have student loans from a graduate degree that will benefit the pension (from which stbxw will benefit) as well as a delayed buyout triggered when youngest kid graduates HS (5 YEARS). I'm arguing for credits against equity to offset the borrowing costs of equity and paying off loans. As these benefit her, it seems unfair for me.to shoulder the financial burden of years of interest.

Anyone successful with such argument? My state has a court case that speaks to unjust enrichment from degree attainment/costs.