Was still living at house I had lived in while married for 20.5 years before she left 4 mos ago, still going thru divorce process, and since start of Sept have been moving things I've wanted to come with me to my new apartment. I've still got a few things I'm hoping to find time to get. But last night was first time sleeping in new place, thank God I was so tired from moving yesterday that I passed out as soon as my head hit the pillow or else I'd be walking zombie at work. I'm so tired from her lists of stuff, she spent 6 hours taking stuff out when she left ( I know this cause we have an alarm system in the house) while I was at work, she just made a 2nd list last week sent to me thru her lawyer. 1st list she made in early Aug, came with friends and her sister to the house on Labor day to pick up everything on the list. Her and her sister didn't cross the line between street and driveway, so her friends carted the things to them. And now with the 2nd list, I guess she wants everything that she didn't take the first 2 times. Sorry about the rant, just trying to not get bent over with no Vaseline with her lists, but it sounds more like a list of demands for what she wants.