All I wanted was a child and a family. I was in the home to help raise her kid but when mine came, she did exactly the same shit to me that she did to her last husband. Get divorced and dad gets "visitation" now. My son and my family was everything to me. I spent thelast 6 years (I know) going back and forth with her, trying to get my family back. Sometimes she pursued me, but mostly I pursued her. She's the one that ended it every time though. The last time WAS the LAST time.

I already had a shitty childhood. Everybody I was supposed to love and trust has fcked me over. WTF am I supposed to live for now, ya know? Of course nothing changes about her life, theres no consequences for them. I guarantee you if the women had to give up the kid(s) and only get visitation if they filed for divorce, all of a sudden they'd be able to "work it out" overnight.