Hi guys,

Im in the thick of divorce proceedings right now, but feel confident in my financial and family picture that's coming. I do have a question and life scheduling and kids though. How do I do it?

Currently, I do the lions share of household work- kids, cooking, cleaning. This means that homework, music practice, tutoring, etc doesn't happen. I finish my work day around 4, but by the time I've gone to the gym, hit the grocery store or whatever else I need to do and then get the kids its often 530-615 when we get home. Then I clean the kitchen, cook dinner, and we eat togethor sometimes as late as 7.

What can I do differently to make time for those other things? I know I won't have the stbx around (she makes things worse, leaves messes and refuses to clean, undermines me etc.) but I'm still not sure how to make the timing work. Are my priorities off? The kids are 4 & 6. Any input is appreciated.

Thanks in advance!

Edit: my eldest is taking drum lessons, and my youngest is showing clear signs of needing more attention and exercise.