Hey all. So my STBXW and I are ending a 19 year marriage. We have three kids, 4 to 16. So, with events that happened in the last two weeks (wont go into detail, shes moved on basically) and me moving out tomorrow, not really interested in spending the upcoming holidays with her and the kids like we discussed earlier. Spending some of it with the kids is fine, but not sure about including her. Looked at ticket prices to fly to Texas, my mom lives there, haven't checked Colorado where my dad lives. Definitely dont want to be alone (did that in the army twice, it sucks, but at least you have company). Thoughts?