Throw away account of course.

In the middle of a divorce of wife for 13 years. I am 40, no kids (luckily). She mostly decided to leave me due to my treatment resistant depression. I had been getting worse and worse over the years and withdrawing. Not to say I did not do everything to try and fix the depression (20 different medications, talk therapy, all the things)

So now, obviously the depression is worse, I am losing 75% of my net worth, and she is even taking the pet. Years of depression means I do not have a support network.

Not to be a sob story, or say it can't be worse.

I am just curious on some ways you all made it through this? I did search the Reddit, and I know my story is not new.

Thank you