Background: Divorced for 5 years, 3 Kids, 1 Disabled Adult Child, 1 Adult Child, 1 Minor Child

She got married 2 months after divorce and had 2 more kids with him. She is in the process of divorce him but dating this new guy.

Ex-Wife still bashes me every chance she gets. We only communicate in email/text so everything is on the record. She thinks that I am jealous of her relationship and a vindictive person. She just moved in with her boyfriend of 4 months (Yes, this is how she rolls). I have been married for almost 2 years. Very happy with my new wife.

I don't ever think about my ex until her life events trigger Custody Agreement changes. Then I am the bad guy again. When she moved in with her boyfriend, it put her out of the geographical zone for 50/50 Custody. I let her know that the schedule will change now and she is all upset. I tried to reason with her letting her know that we both signed the agreement and it should prevent arguments as everything has been agreed upon.

She just turns it around and asks why I am taking them away from the other 2 siblings. I told her that I am not taking them away, this is just a schedule change. I said "They are with me half the time already, was I taking my kids away from your kids". She just ignores all reason.

I feel like this will never end. Even when my youngest is 18, I still have my Adult disabled son. This will be another battle that I am not looking forward to. I feel like if I don't say something then people will think it is true. On the other hand, I feel that the only people I really care what they think of me are my kids and just try to be the best Dad as I can be without responding to every insult thrown my way.

Any encouraging words you can give me? I am very happy in my home life but I don't like that she post bad things about me online and says them to my kids. I have been ignoring the social media posts and don't say bad thing about her to my kids or anyone else.