I filed for divorce after months of trying to convince my wife that we can make it through this time. We were together for ten years but she says that she is scared of me, can’t raise kids with my “conservative” views, and that she can’t support me being a religious man even though she’s so “happy for me and proud of me.” She has been lying to me for months (possibly years) as she was planning to file and had even hired an attorney before I really found out anything. She has turned friends against me and treats me like a total stranger. It hurts. But I’m sure I’ll make it through. It’s nice to see that there are other people here who can relate to these sh!ty circumstances. Any encouragement is appreciated.