Marriage has lasted just under nine years, the past four or so we've been emotionally detached from each other for the most part. Divorce has been discussed in the past but this time it seems like its going to happen.

We're both set on making this as easy as possible for each other. We have a mortgage, no saving aside from my 401k. Her plan is to sell the house and split whats left, shared custody keep lawyers out of it. Thats how her parents did it I guess. I'm terrified of my future and how this will effect my kids, we don't argue or fight so its not like they have any idea this is coming, they're only 8 and 6. I'm worried about the type of housing ill be able to afford, I'd like to be able to get another small house but I only make 40k a year and renting is more expensive than that. Basically I feel like I'm fucked and my world is falling apart. Any advice or just thoughts of support will be appreciated.