I’ve been married almost 8 years and together almost 12. We suffer a severe miscarriage several years ago that has complicated our marriage. Neither of us are happy or content with the relationship. Idk if I want to get divorced but we keep having the same issues. I don’t want kids after the miscarriage but she does. We are polar opposites on almost every level and when we argument we want the same thing but can’t seem to reach the goal. Both of us feel the other is constantly attacking/putting down the other.

The major issue regarding divorce is when we got married we agreed to save her check and live off mine until retirement, then we would live off her pension. She holds most the money while I pay nearly all the bills, food, gas, etc. We have a prenuptial agreement that the house is hers. Any advice?