Wife says she's had enough. Probably a long time coming, it was a pretty volitale road. I think I only went so long for the kids, and at the end of the day I'm glad I did.

Kids are older, son graduates this year and twin daughters just turned 16. I have no real assets outside of bank accounts. We're in an apartment now, so no house to sell. I'm willing to go pretty much any route as long as the kids are good. I keep hearing horror stories and, maybe I'm being very naive, but I just can't see how they could apply to me. I'm researching lawyers, counselors, support groups, all that. What else should I be doing or looking out for?