Wife of 14 years has made a new girlfriend that lives in another state. Wife wants me to allow her to be sexual with her new girlfriend and go on trips together. She says because she is being honest I should be happy for her and allow her to have this relationship. I am a jealous person and have anxiety. I told her if she wants to have that relationship I didn’t know want to be married anymore. Am I being unreasonable? I don’t want to share my spouse.