When love is gone with them and you have to work on your way out of the house . . . How do you split money to be able to save more personally? Or I guess how to say it without being a dick?

I still love my wife. But she’s made it very clear after the last few weeks she has no desire to let me try to fix things. I make a bit more than her (like 600 more month) but obviously with our current budget we split all the money into 50,30,20. 50% to the bank, 30% to us, and 20% to savings. If I’m going to eventually have to leave my house I have to start figuring my own finances out. How do I make that clear without causing a bigger rift and awkwardness around the house?