So all the signs say divorce. What advice would you give and what are my next steps. I'm at step zero, my world is falling apart and I'm not sure what to do. My wife and I have been married for 11 years and all of a sudden she's not happy and things have only gotten worse, admittedly after finding out how she really feels about me I don't think I want to continue either. We have two girls together and this will crush them.